zafrina

Ok so I am not normally going to be this negative but I really need to vent/ask for advice cause I've never been in this situation before. Sooo my little sister is 15 and lives on the other side of the mountains. Its a ridicuously small town and I warned my dad numerous times but my step mom thought that this would be the best way to raise nice Christan girls and keep them away from drugs. Obviously she was mislead at some point in her life cause small town normally = lots of drugs and sex cause there is litterally nothing eles to do. I knew my little sister was having sex and doing some drugs and I just tried to keep her well educated on stuff and kept the lines of communication open. I also knew she was dating a guy who turned 18 while they were togther.

I am not one to judge cause I did similar stuff (though I was 16... which somehow sounds better lol) so I just played the supportive big sister (a title I just got about two years ago... until that point I was an only child). Anyways she had told me that she had a close call with the whole pregnancy thing so I sat her down and told her about planned parenthood and all that good stuff and I figured it was good. WELL come to find out she really did get pregnant... she had wanted to keep it but due to the whole abstience only household that my step mom has created she got rid of it. Which in all honesty I am happy she did cause I don't think she is ready for a kid. But this guy didn't know and he found out and now he is freaking out.

I told her she should have told him but now that I learned a little more about him he seems to be a real dick and I am glad she didn't tell him. He reminds me alot of the abusive relationship I was in... I want to kill this guy. I know my little sister should have been on birthcontrole before sex but considering she hasn't had anyone to talk to about it I can understand why she hasn't. Apperenlty this guy now has, up on his myspace, proud parent. Which is a total slap in the face to my sister who is ridiculously torn up over the decision she had to make. I want to fucking murder him. LIke... this is a 15 year old girl, don't fuck with her emotions!

I am going to visit for christmas soo I am trying to not be so angry when I get there or I am going to go hunt this guy down and beat him till he gets the message to leave my sister alone and get over his little proud parent escapade. Ugh.. ok that was rant. I feel a lil better now.