O.K., well, I guess everything is just a mess. Deadline for the kid (24) and his g/f is tomarrow (good luck and good ridens) 
But I also have a pinched nerve and the Doc said that it is between the 3rd and 4th lumbar. We are going to do the drug thing for two weeks and then if I am still in pain I have to go in for an MRI (I think) to take a look at my spine and see why the nerve is getting pinched.
On the bottom of the shit pile was yesterday, while in very very bad pain (and the doc said not to do much work) I got up and worked on a couple of things around the house to make my G/F fell better about the house and asked her (by text) earlier in the day if we could have some alone time to watch a movie together. Well she came home a bitch and did plenty of complaining (something she's done alot of lately) and we had it out. After a while we sat down and decided that we weren't ready to marry (she decided that "I" was not ready) so I guess the wedding is off. She also said that she couldn't live with a man that she was not marrying. Thats funny I had heard of pleanty of stories of when she lived this man or that one.........hummmm.
Well, she said she would need a couple of paychecks in order to move out because she can't live with me.
I don't think that it is over but only time will tell.
But I also have a pinched nerve and the Doc said that it is between the 3rd and 4th lumbar. We are going to do the drug thing for two weeks and then if I am still in pain I have to go in for an MRI (I think) to take a look at my spine and see why the nerve is getting pinched.
On the bottom of the shit pile was yesterday, while in very very bad pain (and the doc said not to do much work) I got up and worked on a couple of things around the house to make my G/F fell better about the house and asked her (by text) earlier in the day if we could have some alone time to watch a movie together. Well she came home a bitch and did plenty of complaining (something she's done alot of lately) and we had it out. After a while we sat down and decided that we weren't ready to marry (she decided that "I" was not ready) so I guess the wedding is off. She also said that she couldn't live with a man that she was not marrying. Thats funny I had heard of pleanty of stories of when she lived this man or that one.........hummmm.
Well, she said she would need a couple of paychecks in order to move out because she can't live with me.
I don't think that it is over but only time will tell.
Sounds like you've got a lot of stress in your life right now. Maybe in the time it takes her to save those couple of paychecks, she'll do some more thinking and change her mind. It sounds like having her kid around has put a lot of stress on both of you. I hope you guys can work it out.
Ouchy!!! Pinched nerves are the worst! I hope you get better soon. Keep us posted on what's happening with you. I don't think any of us can help much, but maybe we can at least try to cheer you up.