Been a while since my last blog. Time to fill you in.
My daughter Luna is now 4. My son Zen will be 3 this coming Sunday.
My little circle of friends has had some rather interesting Drama. Not anything I haven't seen before mind you, but for them it's all tragic.
My friend Amber is kinda the "mommy" of the group, and when someone has a problem and needs comforting, she's the one most of our friends turn to. Well, we've got another friend who is going through a tough divorce, raising his 2 kids on his own, has to deal with a lot of long shifts and weekend work. He got really attached to Amber and got a little clingy and possessive even. His dog died recently and that threw it all into overdrive. Amber has stopped paying ANY attention to her own house, kids or husband. Obviously her husband is NOT happy about that.
We are all swingers. In fact, there are a few people in the group (namely me) who are polyamorous. So this whole Amber and Chris thing is really becoming a hinderance for all of us, and it has even become SO obviously an issue that my husband Crash spoke up and called them out on it. For hours sometimes these two will dissapear from the group just to go talk alone. They will cuddle and they even have a song that the whole group is subjected to 90 times a day. Her husband is getting really pissed off.
Jeff, Amber's husband, had a meltdown the other day. But instead of saying what was really on his mind, instead of standing up and putting an end to the inapropriate relationship, he started pulling this "he-said, she-said" shit. He told Chris that I claimed that Jeff was better in bed. Funny, because not only have I never said anything of the sort, but I hadn't as of yet slept with Chris at all. (However, I have since, and I have to say, I don't see what all the fuss is about either way
) Then a few days later, during the actual meltdown, he drags my friend Sherry into it as well. He said that Sherry was still talking behind their backs and saying that she knew there was more going on that they weren't being honest about. Well... the only thing that Sherry may have said to even give him that idea was in a conversation with me, and we weren't even TALKING about Amber and Chris. We were talking about some things my husband had done over the last several days, and she said "I stand by what I said before"...... she was referring to the fact that my husband and I don't make sense, but that he is still amazingly sweet, considdering the fact that we mutually understand that we are not in love. (I'd go into more detail, but that's a whole other blog)
My husband has forbidden any of the 3 friends from coming over to our house at the same time. I understand, but the problem isn't going to fix itself without actually confronting it. I can only hope that they will be doing so on their own time. And hopefully by Saturday, or else Zen's birthday party is going to SUCK. lol
A side note, my friend Sherry (I swear to Isis, she is a freaking mirror image of my personality and psychic energies) has moved into my house. It's awesome to have a 4 bedroom place, because I never used one of the rooms anyways. And a few months ago I got the urge to move all of my stuff out, decorate it up and set it up for someone else. Now I know why. lol. Her son is just a few months older than my oldest, and all 4 of the kids play well together.
Druid is starting to really walk finally. He's starting to show signs of affection and he's talking more. It's like he woke up one day and decided he was going to try to prove all of the doctors wrong.
You have no idea how freaking wonderful I felt when I actually picked him up one day as he was getting sleepy, only to have him grab my shirt and lay his head down and humm. That was the closest thing to affection I have ever had from him, and I almost cried. Or maybe I did cry. 
If I can get my place in this tangled web of lies and deceipt figured out, then I may be sending in another set for considderation. Amber is a photographer. And I've lost 27Lbs in 3 months. I am really starting to look and more importantly, FEEL better.
I also plan to upload pictures from some of our fun parties lately. I really need to upgrade my default picture after having lost all of that weight. Goddess, I need to dye my hair again. I need a lightening kit too. damn. those are hard to find around here. It's okay I'll be going to Cambridge on Sunday. Hopefully I'll find one there.
Anyways, that's all I can think of for the moment. I'll fill in the blanks later.
My daughter Luna is now 4. My son Zen will be 3 this coming Sunday.
My little circle of friends has had some rather interesting Drama. Not anything I haven't seen before mind you, but for them it's all tragic.
My friend Amber is kinda the "mommy" of the group, and when someone has a problem and needs comforting, she's the one most of our friends turn to. Well, we've got another friend who is going through a tough divorce, raising his 2 kids on his own, has to deal with a lot of long shifts and weekend work. He got really attached to Amber and got a little clingy and possessive even. His dog died recently and that threw it all into overdrive. Amber has stopped paying ANY attention to her own house, kids or husband. Obviously her husband is NOT happy about that.
We are all swingers. In fact, there are a few people in the group (namely me) who are polyamorous. So this whole Amber and Chris thing is really becoming a hinderance for all of us, and it has even become SO obviously an issue that my husband Crash spoke up and called them out on it. For hours sometimes these two will dissapear from the group just to go talk alone. They will cuddle and they even have a song that the whole group is subjected to 90 times a day. Her husband is getting really pissed off.
Jeff, Amber's husband, had a meltdown the other day. But instead of saying what was really on his mind, instead of standing up and putting an end to the inapropriate relationship, he started pulling this "he-said, she-said" shit. He told Chris that I claimed that Jeff was better in bed. Funny, because not only have I never said anything of the sort, but I hadn't as of yet slept with Chris at all. (However, I have since, and I have to say, I don't see what all the fuss is about either way
) Then a few days later, during the actual meltdown, he drags my friend Sherry into it as well. He said that Sherry was still talking behind their backs and saying that she knew there was more going on that they weren't being honest about. Well... the only thing that Sherry may have said to even give him that idea was in a conversation with me, and we weren't even TALKING about Amber and Chris. We were talking about some things my husband had done over the last several days, and she said "I stand by what I said before"...... she was referring to the fact that my husband and I don't make sense, but that he is still amazingly sweet, considdering the fact that we mutually understand that we are not in love. (I'd go into more detail, but that's a whole other blog)
My husband has forbidden any of the 3 friends from coming over to our house at the same time. I understand, but the problem isn't going to fix itself without actually confronting it. I can only hope that they will be doing so on their own time. And hopefully by Saturday, or else Zen's birthday party is going to SUCK. lol
A side note, my friend Sherry (I swear to Isis, she is a freaking mirror image of my personality and psychic energies) has moved into my house. It's awesome to have a 4 bedroom place, because I never used one of the rooms anyways. And a few months ago I got the urge to move all of my stuff out, decorate it up and set it up for someone else. Now I know why. lol. Her son is just a few months older than my oldest, and all 4 of the kids play well together.
Druid is starting to really walk finally. He's starting to show signs of affection and he's talking more. It's like he woke up one day and decided he was going to try to prove all of the doctors wrong.
You have no idea how freaking wonderful I felt when I actually picked him up one day as he was getting sleepy, only to have him grab my shirt and lay his head down and humm. That was the closest thing to affection I have ever had from him, and I almost cried. Or maybe I did cry.
If I can get my place in this tangled web of lies and deceipt figured out, then I may be sending in another set for considderation. Amber is a photographer. And I've lost 27Lbs in 3 months. I am really starting to look and more importantly, FEEL better.
I also plan to upload pictures from some of our fun parties lately. I really need to upgrade my default picture after having lost all of that weight. Goddess, I need to dye my hair again. I need a lightening kit too. damn. those are hard to find around here. It's okay I'll be going to Cambridge on Sunday. Hopefully I'll find one there.
Anyways, that's all I can think of for the moment. I'll fill in the blanks later.
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wyldewolfe:
hope things work out
billytheseal:
that's a hell of a blog, and seems like a hell of a problem. no wonder you haven't been able to blog for a while. hope you're able to sort it out soon.