Libido is an interesting thing...
I have NONE for instance. But only when it comes to my husband, or folks who don't believe in foreplay. "Hey, Nice Shoes... Wanna fuck?" Sorry guys, those lines don't work on me. You've got to be a bit more creative, and start slowly. Rushing towards my clit is just going to make it run away. (Seriously, my clit moves, sometimes as much as a few inches! Ask any of the folks I've slept with. It kinda creeps me out.)... But honestly, I don't want to have to do the seducing every time. After a while it gets old. I feel like a robot when I'm around my husband. He expects there to be an On/Off switch, and I'm sorry, but I haven't found it yet! And I've been looking a hell of a lot longer than you have!
Alternatively, when it comes to certain people, I turn into an absolute NYMPHO. For instance, my ex Jareth. (Sadly my ex.
) We had sexual chemistry. But not just that. We could lie awake all night not saying a word, and watch the sun come up. We could always tell what kind of touch the other needed, be it rough or gentle or re-assuring. We just knew. And he always seemed to know the right thing to say, even when that was "I don't know what to say..." 
We had REAL chemistry. Not to mention that we still love eachother after 5 years apart. (Complicated story, I won't get into it or we'd be here all night).
I LIVE for role-playing, especially in the bedroom. I really get into it. Cosplay, fantasy, fetish... all of it! I'll gladly dress up like princess Leia and let you chain me to your bed and lick me all over. And I can pull off the catholic-school-girl thing better than anybody. Maybe because I really WAS one...
I can even be a good DOM if I've got the right bitch.
My other wife is like a walking clitoris. You look at her the wrong way, or breathe across her neck, and she goes into convulsions of pleasure. I am so envious! I wonder what it would be like for one week to trade her bodies, and to get to experience that pure unadulterated LUST! She hates it sometimes, being one big pleasure-button. Hubby#2 loves it though. There's one spot on her back that sets her off like nobody's business, and he'll randomly play with that spot while she's doing household chores and whatnot. She gets SO mad, because she can't control it. Most people can turn their libido off, but my poor girlfriend has no choice. She is forever a slave to SEX.
I have considdered the idea that the reason I can't get interested in my husband is that we are in a committed life-long relationship, and that terrifies me. I am Cyclothymic. Part of that is having erratic relationships and running from one situation to the next in a matter of (if you're lucky) months. I am afraid of being abandoned, so I leave them first, and stupid shit like that. Yes, I have an outlying fear of abandonment. But more obvious than that is my fear of commitment. I've had 7 fiancs. One marriage. See what I mean? lol
Anyways, I'm off for now...
What are y'all's favorite bedroom role-playing situations? You know, erotic fantasies, costumes, etc?
I have NONE for instance. But only when it comes to my husband, or folks who don't believe in foreplay. "Hey, Nice Shoes... Wanna fuck?" Sorry guys, those lines don't work on me. You've got to be a bit more creative, and start slowly. Rushing towards my clit is just going to make it run away. (Seriously, my clit moves, sometimes as much as a few inches! Ask any of the folks I've slept with. It kinda creeps me out.)... But honestly, I don't want to have to do the seducing every time. After a while it gets old. I feel like a robot when I'm around my husband. He expects there to be an On/Off switch, and I'm sorry, but I haven't found it yet! And I've been looking a hell of a lot longer than you have!
Alternatively, when it comes to certain people, I turn into an absolute NYMPHO. For instance, my ex Jareth. (Sadly my ex.
) We had sexual chemistry. But not just that. We could lie awake all night not saying a word, and watch the sun come up. We could always tell what kind of touch the other needed, be it rough or gentle or re-assuring. We just knew. And he always seemed to know the right thing to say, even when that was "I don't know what to say..." We had REAL chemistry. Not to mention that we still love eachother after 5 years apart. (Complicated story, I won't get into it or we'd be here all night).
I LIVE for role-playing, especially in the bedroom. I really get into it. Cosplay, fantasy, fetish... all of it! I'll gladly dress up like princess Leia and let you chain me to your bed and lick me all over. And I can pull off the catholic-school-girl thing better than anybody. Maybe because I really WAS one...
I can even be a good DOM if I've got the right bitch.
My other wife is like a walking clitoris. You look at her the wrong way, or breathe across her neck, and she goes into convulsions of pleasure. I am so envious! I wonder what it would be like for one week to trade her bodies, and to get to experience that pure unadulterated LUST! She hates it sometimes, being one big pleasure-button. Hubby#2 loves it though. There's one spot on her back that sets her off like nobody's business, and he'll randomly play with that spot while she's doing household chores and whatnot. She gets SO mad, because she can't control it. Most people can turn their libido off, but my poor girlfriend has no choice. She is forever a slave to SEX.
I have considdered the idea that the reason I can't get interested in my husband is that we are in a committed life-long relationship, and that terrifies me. I am Cyclothymic. Part of that is having erratic relationships and running from one situation to the next in a matter of (if you're lucky) months. I am afraid of being abandoned, so I leave them first, and stupid shit like that. Yes, I have an outlying fear of abandonment. But more obvious than that is my fear of commitment. I've had 7 fiancs. One marriage. See what I mean? lol
Anyways, I'm off for now...
What are y'all's favorite bedroom role-playing situations? You know, erotic fantasies, costumes, etc?
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xx_river_xx:
Damn this atlantic ocean for coming between us yet again!
vhott:
i know that damn water is always fucken some shit up. how dare it! oxoxoxo-vhott