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My girlfriend thinks I am "obsessed with women" because I am on SG. She is "disgusted" with me for wanting to enjoy the beauty of women other than her. I realize I am treading on thin ice here with her, but can we all agree SG is not a bad thing and it should not force couples to break up?!! I feel I can be a very good relationship partner and still enjoy the look of other women, don't YOU?

This has become a very real problem in my relationship. Personally, I think it is ridiculous. When a girlfriend becomes jealous in this way I feel like something else is wrong. My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and she has never been remotely the jealous type. I feel like this is more an aspect of her being insecure. I care very much how she feels, but I am not going to lie and pretend I am not attracted to other women besides my girlfriend. I am completely satisfied by her, but that doesn't mean I never want to see another woman. There is clearly a fine line and everyone seems to have different standards of what is acceptable behavior in a partner.

What is YOUR standard? What do you think of my situation with my girlfriend. Please feel free to comment; She is not on SG and won't be reading what you say. I need to know what others consider "normal" so I can check myself against reality. I don't feel like a pervert. I don't think being on SG makes me a pervert.