to clear up some of the last post.
we have had sex, i have gone down on her. she likes them both.. to a certain point. i guess she starts to have the feelings that she experienced coming back again or something.. i try to talk to her. i try to turn her on, and it works. but she wont let herself do it. she hasnt told anyone about it other than me.. and maybe one other person. she thinks that if she doesnt talk about it that it will go away. i love her very much, but the not having sexual contact is killing.. well the lack of sexual contact, because every now and again she will be in the mood. when i say every now and again i mean 4 times a year maybe...
we have had sex, i have gone down on her. she likes them both.. to a certain point. i guess she starts to have the feelings that she experienced coming back again or something.. i try to talk to her. i try to turn her on, and it works. but she wont let herself do it. she hasnt told anyone about it other than me.. and maybe one other person. she thinks that if she doesnt talk about it that it will go away. i love her very much, but the not having sexual contact is killing.. well the lack of sexual contact, because every now and again she will be in the mood. when i say every now and again i mean 4 times a year maybe...
rubydoll:
Oh, I see better now. I think counseling would do her a lot of good because she would have someone to help her work her feelings out.
koukie:
um.... dont know what to really say about that except that im so very sorry that your not getting any, that must really suck, maybe she should go get some counseling and then maybe she will forget about it without remembering it every time she gets turned on. Thats all 4 now