I screwed myself over a few days ago with this guy I really liked and now we don't talk anymore. So obviously a drastic hair dye job was needed amirite?? Well you know what? I've had the toughest time trusting guys throughout my dating experiences partly because a) They were complete asshats that didn't deserve my kindness, time, and energy; and b) I was never really confident in myself physically or mentally. But as I've grown the past couple years, I've started to realize that it was never me or what I looked like or how I acted.. it was them. So every time a guy leaves my life, I take it as a lesson learned. Before I would wallow in self pity and shut down. But now it makes me stronger! And this one, I think, taught me a lesson I haven't even really ever been comfortable thinking about... and that is that bad things are going to happen no matter what, people talk and there's always gonna be a little rain with your sunshine. But how you see it, makes or breaks you. I've learned that I need not be afraid of love or trusting someone new, because you never know what could happen, and you can't assume based on other people's opinions or words. You have to draw a line between who they are and who other people think they are. If it's meant to be, it'll happen.
So ladies, this site is full of confidence, I know, but do not be afraid of letting go and living life and accepting whatever happens! we have control over ourselves and that's it! Life is all about what you make of it, perspective. As long as you believe in yourself and know your worth, absolutely nothing can bring you down!
So as of this moment, I'm starting a new journey with my newfound self confidence and I'm seeing where it takes me! Ladies and gentlemen, fasten your seat belts and enjoy the ride!
