hello everyone out there...any advice on what to do with all the things that remind you of the one that broke your heart??? It seems every time I turn theres a damn reminder of something we did, something we bought, a place we went, a painting I drew of him, a sugar bowl we bought in Arizona! AGHGH!! i feel retarted!! I can only imagine how sad people feel when they get divorced. We were only together about a year and I'm struggling'' People say it hurts this way because I actually cared. which i guess is comforting but I'm kinda stuck in "oh fuck, im sad land..." Waking up in the morning is bittersweet, going to bed at night is getting easier, but the damn radio keeps playing all those fucking amazing break up songs..hmmmm
anyhow, Ive decided to learn swing dancing on wed. nights at Valley swing in San Fernando. Anyone heard of it?? I went to a party the other night and of course the most handsome GAY guy (aquarius) ballroom danced with me all night!! It was amazing!! I've never danced with someone that new how to lead and can I just say I smiled and giggled for an entire hour!! My upper body was sore from keeping my posture and arms up..it was worth every pain!! so now I'm hooked!! Looking for a partner to take lessons , ballroom, latin, swing , whatevea!!!!!!!! Prefer in the valley but I know there is so much offered on the west side but if anyone knows anywhere to go or has any recommendations please let me know! I have a dance background so i'd love to dance with someone that has a little bit of skill already. And some style wouldn't hurt! Am i asking too much??? lol
Well, off to start my glorious March 2 day 2006..weeeeeee!
anyhow, Ive decided to learn swing dancing on wed. nights at Valley swing in San Fernando. Anyone heard of it?? I went to a party the other night and of course the most handsome GAY guy (aquarius) ballroom danced with me all night!! It was amazing!! I've never danced with someone that new how to lead and can I just say I smiled and giggled for an entire hour!! My upper body was sore from keeping my posture and arms up..it was worth every pain!! so now I'm hooked!! Looking for a partner to take lessons , ballroom, latin, swing , whatevea!!!!!!!! Prefer in the valley but I know there is so much offered on the west side but if anyone knows anywhere to go or has any recommendations please let me know! I have a dance background so i'd love to dance with someone that has a little bit of skill already. And some style wouldn't hurt! Am i asking too much??? lol
Well, off to start my glorious March 2 day 2006..weeeeeee!
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According Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), you established a multitude of anchors that you associated with your ex. You can consciously try to remove each anchor, i.e. fill that sugar bowl with something you dislike, like old cigarette butts since your step father has lung cancer and you are trying to quit smoking. However, as long as your ex is still on your mind, when you look at the world you will always find something out there that reminds you of your relationship with him. Your reality tunnel is fixed on him. So until you change your perception, he will still haunt you.
Just keep on dancing and eventually you'll discover a handsome partner that isn't gay. When I look at your pictures, I wish I was gay and knew how to dance.