help..i'm so sad...I told a certain someone that I've been with for over a year now that I loved him and wanted to know what he wanted out of our relationship and he said he thinks he's "incapable of loving"....WTF!!!!
I mean really, what does that mean??
he also said he doesn't think i'm the one, he doens't want to make the same mistakes his parents made, etc..etc...
basically I think I just got dumped but he's totally fine with us hanging out...we also just got back from a trip to Europe and everything was cool...now that we are home , he's back to his old routines and damn, I sound pathetic!!! Really, what I need is some ass kicking advice and on how to move on cause who wants to be with someone who doens't know what they want....
I just want someone to return the love....I dont want to feel like Im wasting my time and energy to anyone who cannot love me , or at least try....damn. This sounds so sappy, I normally don't care but fuck, I fell for him..I fell for us...and now that I asked where does he see us, it backfired...he shut down and shut me out...
damn valley boys, why the fuck did I go out with a boy from the valley??? oh yeah, cause he's cute and speaks spanish and italian.....well, i guess the cuteness has replaced dumbness ...by the way he's 27 ( and still lives at home) and I just turned 29..so any advice on this would be great....
lovesick in la.... 
I mean really, what does that mean??
he also said he doesn't think i'm the one, he doens't want to make the same mistakes his parents made, etc..etc...
basically I think I just got dumped but he's totally fine with us hanging out...we also just got back from a trip to Europe and everything was cool...now that we are home , he's back to his old routines and damn, I sound pathetic!!! Really, what I need is some ass kicking advice and on how to move on cause who wants to be with someone who doens't know what they want....
I just want someone to return the love....I dont want to feel like Im wasting my time and energy to anyone who cannot love me , or at least try....damn. This sounds so sappy, I normally don't care but fuck, I fell for him..I fell for us...and now that I asked where does he see us, it backfired...he shut down and shut me out...
damn valley boys, why the fuck did I go out with a boy from the valley??? oh yeah, cause he's cute and speaks spanish and italian.....well, i guess the cuteness has replaced dumbness ...by the way he's 27 ( and still lives at home) and I just turned 29..so any advice on this would be great....
lovesick in la.... VIEW 11 of 11 COMMENTS
I don't think the best way to move on is to find someone new. I think a mini vacation may be in order. Maybe a bitchfest with the girls and a mountain of ice cream. Burning pictures and keep-sakes can be theraputic too. (I like to keep something) After that, pour yourself into work/art/hobbies.
Good luck.
[Edited on Feb 22, 2006 3:27AM]