My world is spinning again. What the fuck am I doing???
We just got informed that we're going to need to give a $3000 Earnest Money Deposit. No one ever mentioned this before... so we're looking at $11000 with down payment and closing cost and now $3000 for the EMD... Yeah, here let me write you a check or $14000... NOT! I mean if we'd have had some warning... We were told about the contract and no one ever said, by the way, bring $3000 with you to sign it.
With this new piece of info, the whole dream might be shot... We were already struggling to get everything to work, and add another $3000 to it... I really don't know if we can do that. Especially as getting both it and the down payment together may take us longer then the tax rebate is going to be lasting... which would mean when it's time to hand over closing cost money... we just wouldn't have it...
I feel like I was shot in the back... Dude... WTF!
And I guess maybe we just haven't thought it all the way through and there might be a way to pull it off, there was last time I felt like this... but damn...
So if we end up not being able to do it, where does that leave our roommate/good friend??? He's going to need to move back in with his parents... I'd feel so incredibly bad. I'm so afraid he'll hate me for it. Though there's part of me that wonders if it'd even matter, as most likely we'd be moving back to FL to try to make it all work there again. (I fund a 45 foot sailboat, in non-sail-able condition, but liveaboard ready in Marathon, FL... and it's only about $3300... they just want to get rid of it... IF it's still available, that is...) But he's been so good to us all, and I really do care about him. I know he doesn't want to move back with his folks... But what an I do about it... not like he'd come to FL with us (We've already mentioned it... his mother's ill, so he can't move away.) ...
WTF!
My life is just chaos. I mean I know it always has a tendency to be crazy, but this is just starting to get ot of hand. I just want to find SOMEWHERE to be home...
We just got informed that we're going to need to give a $3000 Earnest Money Deposit. No one ever mentioned this before... so we're looking at $11000 with down payment and closing cost and now $3000 for the EMD... Yeah, here let me write you a check or $14000... NOT! I mean if we'd have had some warning... We were told about the contract and no one ever said, by the way, bring $3000 with you to sign it.
With this new piece of info, the whole dream might be shot... We were already struggling to get everything to work, and add another $3000 to it... I really don't know if we can do that. Especially as getting both it and the down payment together may take us longer then the tax rebate is going to be lasting... which would mean when it's time to hand over closing cost money... we just wouldn't have it...
I feel like I was shot in the back... Dude... WTF!
And I guess maybe we just haven't thought it all the way through and there might be a way to pull it off, there was last time I felt like this... but damn...
So if we end up not being able to do it, where does that leave our roommate/good friend??? He's going to need to move back in with his parents... I'd feel so incredibly bad. I'm so afraid he'll hate me for it. Though there's part of me that wonders if it'd even matter, as most likely we'd be moving back to FL to try to make it all work there again. (I fund a 45 foot sailboat, in non-sail-able condition, but liveaboard ready in Marathon, FL... and it's only about $3300... they just want to get rid of it... IF it's still available, that is...) But he's been so good to us all, and I really do care about him. I know he doesn't want to move back with his folks... But what an I do about it... not like he'd come to FL with us (We've already mentioned it... his mother's ill, so he can't move away.) ...
WTF!
My life is just chaos. I mean I know it always has a tendency to be crazy, but this is just starting to get ot of hand. I just want to find SOMEWHERE to be home...
ribbonsundone:
Oh, honey, this is awful. I am so sending you whatever resolution is best for you and all parties concerned. This is just the pits. lovelovelove.