Well, after some conversations last night, I'm feeling a lot better about the house. Hubby says he really wants a bar in the basement too, and that we'd work it out. So, I'm not sure how we're going to work it out, but as long as we're all on the same page, I'm sure we will.
Also, Deadliest Warrior will be on again tonight, Yukuza vs Italian Mob. Should be interesting, though I have to admit, at this point, I'm not really as interested as I was in some of the other ones. We'll see though, all the other episodes have been really good.
And the big news for the day; hubby asked me to start looking up what we need to do to divorce. It's kind of come up a few times, but we had decided to leave it alone for a while. Apparently, he's at a point where he's ready to get on with it. I honestly didn't think we were going to end up doing it till the kids moved out. But he's having a hard time dating, (explaining to people your still married but separated is limiting his dating options). I knew we were going to do it, but even with us separated, the idea of no longer being married kind of breaks my heart... I'll be legally single again. Granted, I'm already involved in another LTR, the idea of me not being married is kind of disturbing. I mean, I know honey would marry me... and we already live as if we were, but it's just all strange. Hubby said it kind of out of the blue today.
So, I've been starting to look it up online. Trying to research how we could do it without a lawyer and all. He also said we could do some kind of a corporation for the home ownership, so that it would protect all of us, and we would all own the house so none of us feel like we're "living in someone else's house" or be able to get kicked out.
So... I guess we'll see about it all... and I'm getting a nasty headache...
Also, Deadliest Warrior will be on again tonight, Yukuza vs Italian Mob. Should be interesting, though I have to admit, at this point, I'm not really as interested as I was in some of the other ones. We'll see though, all the other episodes have been really good.
And the big news for the day; hubby asked me to start looking up what we need to do to divorce. It's kind of come up a few times, but we had decided to leave it alone for a while. Apparently, he's at a point where he's ready to get on with it. I honestly didn't think we were going to end up doing it till the kids moved out. But he's having a hard time dating, (explaining to people your still married but separated is limiting his dating options). I knew we were going to do it, but even with us separated, the idea of no longer being married kind of breaks my heart... I'll be legally single again. Granted, I'm already involved in another LTR, the idea of me not being married is kind of disturbing. I mean, I know honey would marry me... and we already live as if we were, but it's just all strange. Hubby said it kind of out of the blue today.
So, I've been starting to look it up online. Trying to research how we could do it without a lawyer and all. He also said we could do some kind of a corporation for the home ownership, so that it would protect all of us, and we would all own the house so none of us feel like we're "living in someone else's house" or be able to get kicked out.
So... I guess we'll see about it all... and I'm getting a nasty headache...
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tweedle:
I'm sorry... sounds kind of sucky
But I don't really know much about these situations besides what I've seen with my parents. I hope it all works out the way you'd like it to though. Divorce makes me sad though
bittersweetdream:
OMG!!!! I missed deadliest warrior!!!! ::cries::