wsoxfan

I have been going to the local YM/YWHA on Wednesday evenings over the past several weeks. They have an over 40 singles gathering, where you can mingle and listen to a lecturer on various relationship topics. About 3 weeks ago, I approached a woman and engaged her in conversation. We seemed to hit it off, so we decided to go on a date. Her name is Mae-Ann and She's 52 years old. The date went very well, so now we are seeing each other on a weekly basis. We still attend the Wednesday night get together. This is the first time I am 'dating' since my wife passed away in a vanilla relationship.
I told my Goddess about it yesterday. She was genuinely happy for me and felt that dating this woman was good for me. For now, my greatest need is companionship. However this relationship evolves, or doesn't remains to be seen. The best way for me to look at it is to go with the flow and see what happens.
I met with my Goddess last night. She's been very busy lately, because Her new job takes up time that She previously would have had to do the things She needs to do. I was very stressed out and told Her so. As always, Goddess knew exactly what I needed from Her, and gave it to me. Just the right amount of BDSM combined with just the right amount of tenderness and affection. I left Her feeling much better, which was no surprise to me.
I loved Her spontaneous remarks about how thin I looked. Thanks to Her inspiration I have lost over 40 pounds and 8 inches off my waist in what seems like a very short time. She encourages me all the time, which I continue to need from Her. There is still more work to be done in this area, and I know that with the help of my Goddess I will get to where I need to be.