ok, here is my current rant. has anyone visited a massage parlor or required about an ad in backpage? well i have done both and can understand why a guy like me would need a service like those. what i don't understand and what i don't get is how someone that looks good, has money, or whatever else women like and could probably get any women they want but still seek out a massage parlor or ad in backpage. that just blows my mind.......like dude you don't need to pay for it so why are you????? hahahaha.....seriously am confused by that happening. anyone have any input on this???