The male species fails entirely. Officially.
Great big failure.
And I'm done helping people. For sure. I don't want to hear anyone else's problems or whining or issues or anything about their lives unless it's funny, uplifting, or neutral. I want nothing to do with personal conflicts that I have no involvement in.
I hate being the "amazing friend." Do you know how many people tell me that? "Jes, you're such a good friend, you're amazing, you're going to go places." Fuck that. Can't I be an okay friend, the one that nobody comes to for help, and still go places? I don't want to be the confidante. I don't want to be involved anymore because everyone ends up making stupid choices anyway and then whines when their life sucks. Two years later, "Oh, jeez, Jes, I wish I had taken your advice back there...." Yeah, well, never helping you anymore.
Fuck my life.
Great big failure.
And I'm done helping people. For sure. I don't want to hear anyone else's problems or whining or issues or anything about their lives unless it's funny, uplifting, or neutral. I want nothing to do with personal conflicts that I have no involvement in.
I hate being the "amazing friend." Do you know how many people tell me that? "Jes, you're such a good friend, you're amazing, you're going to go places." Fuck that. Can't I be an okay friend, the one that nobody comes to for help, and still go places? I don't want to be the confidante. I don't want to be involved anymore because everyone ends up making stupid choices anyway and then whines when their life sucks. Two years later, "Oh, jeez, Jes, I wish I had taken your advice back there...." Yeah, well, never helping you anymore.
Fuck my life.