It can be simple. I desire a sandwich. I desire a swimming pool or I desire a nice fresh bowl? What do I desire? Well it's complicated. First, have you seen the movie Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind? If not you should!
My desire is to bump into a free spirit, beautiful woman that takes me thru an adventure for 24 hours and then never see her again. To know that a stranger can take notice of me when I don't feel like I am being noticed.
We talk books, music and life in general. Go get coffee and spend hours just talking. When the store closes we continue to dinner or just drinks. We spend the evening just enjoying the moment. Where it goes neither of us know. All we know is when the morning comes, it will end.
So now anyone can say there desire Big or Small. No judgements.