So one of my friends said to me today that i was afraid of commitment, that was why i am single... hmmmm I said that it has nothing to do with being afraid i am just content with my life now. So i choose to be so. I think its hard for some people to understand that people enjoy the single life, and that you must conform to societies norms and be married with kids in your and be a debt slave in your mid thirties. Ah well such is life..... 