I'm seeing somebody, we just started, but I have such bad self esteem that I always feel that he isn't really into me...what are some subtle signs that he really does like me for who I am and not just for the sex? I feel like I could be waaaaaaay less uptight and a lot more fun if I could figure it out.
communicate with this guy.
you will thank yourself for it.
a good relationship is built on it.
so you should start now.
it will make you (and maybe even HIM!) feel better.
I need to learn how to embrace myself, everything about myself. Where do I get the tools to make myself happy? My most favorite thing is contentment, and I don't have it anymore.
i think there are tools everywhere...you see certain ones some of the time, and different ones other times...just do your thing and look on the sidelines from time to time...sometimes the things that make us the most happy with ourselves are right there but often neglected...
i hope that makes some sort of sense...my head kind of hurts reading over it
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I don't feel very good about what is happening to the site. I don't know whats going on, I just have a bad feeling. If anybody wants to let me in on all thats going on, please do, you can email for added privacy.
everything is ok with the sight. there really isn't much to worry about. spooky doesn't just randomly kick people off the site. so unless you are being totally offensive or rude to everyone and more important the girls, there is nothing to freak out about.
i couldn't help myself