walshant

its always odd when friends pull away. i understand the natural drift apart, and thats pretty easy to deal with cause its just how life goes, but the active pull away. it wouldnt bother me so much but no one i know seems capable of just being direct with someone. they all worry about each others feelings, so they lie and make up excuses to spare each other while they try to find a non-painful way to extract themselves from a friendship. but my question is why worry about sparing feelings if the end goal is to have someone out of your life? the initial shock would suck, but at least you would know what went wrong and why they were pissed so you could work on not doing it to other people, and grow as a person. instead i get no silver lining, no idea why they are pulling away, and fewer friends. what the fuck?