Saturday May 12, 2012

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This weekend is putting my split with the wife in to perspective. It's clear to me now that her quitting on 14 years is a blessing. For the last 13 years, it has been tradition for us to see her mom in the morning and mine in the afternoon. Know my parents will never miss church, she made plans for her and the kids to go see her mom tomorrow afternoon, so my mom is shit out of luck. I know my mom will feel just as appreciated when we see her today as she would tomorrow, it's the fact that the ex is trying to make things difficult no matter who is involved.
peachysweetlove:
karma has a way of dealing w. people like this. When my ex and I split, it made him piss acid that I would never resort to shit like that ...he couldn't say a word because even though I hated her, I let his mom have ample opportunity with the kids...so when him and her both dropped the ball, it was all too obvious who's fault it was.
w00dy:
Karma is the bitch of all bitches.... I think what makes this worse is her taking the kids and leaving was 100% her choice. I was willing to make an effort with my issues but she had made up her mind. I have been, I think, WAY more helpful and nice that I need to be. I helped her move, payed for the trailer rental to move, and am still paying most of her bills, even going to pay off her car to help reduce her bills.

A huge effort is made to see the kids whenever I can, take them to diner whenever possible, have them stay over on the weekends, I still isn't enough to stop all the bitching and what feels like pure hate towards me. To make it even worse, she claims she still wants to be friends, but it's so damn hard...

How did you handle it?

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