So I got banned from the generfuck group..
All I did was caution this girl that she was breaking site rules by posting topless pics of her friend.
http://suicidegirls.com/boards/Everything+SG/306069/page1/#post15367046 <--- is the rule
Of course that sent her into a tail spin and she cursed me out and verbally assaulted me.
This of course violates "the golden rule" that genderfuck holds so so dear..
Yet I am banned and not her.
This tells me 2 things, 1 that such a group were people cannot act like grown ups and approach things in a calm way is not a group for me and 2 that rush is highly selective in where she chooses to apply the "golden rule"...
So I will weep not for my ban but for the poor people of this site that seem to think this is a giant E-Highschool complete with clicks and incrowds.
This type of mentality seems to be common with any community that is on the fringe of public acceptance. I am reminded of a young boy on stickam who said he was bisexual and when I asked him how he knew he was bisexual he banned me from his room. That same mental path of "its questioning me" "it must not approve of me" "take action" is common here. Like a frustrated little boy who thinks the whole world is against him the people of this site react with a over zealus retribution for anything or anybody that askes to many questions or dose not seem to fit in amoung thier kind. I think this site really needs a "report post" botton so then I could test how unbias and fair the moderation team is when a regular starts throwing a tantrum because I asked them a question. I am confident that if I can find a group were there is less then 2 of those god dammed kids that my chances of getting banned from it or harassed with drop significantly. I don't think they have so much time on thier hands that they will follow me outside thier comfort zone just to berrate me with ad hominem attacks.
All I did was caution this girl that she was breaking site rules by posting topless pics of her friend.
http://suicidegirls.com/boards/Everything+SG/306069/page1/#post15367046 <--- is the rule
Of course that sent her into a tail spin and she cursed me out and verbally assaulted me.
This of course violates "the golden rule" that genderfuck holds so so dear..
Yet I am banned and not her.
This tells me 2 things, 1 that such a group were people cannot act like grown ups and approach things in a calm way is not a group for me and 2 that rush is highly selective in where she chooses to apply the "golden rule"...
So I will weep not for my ban but for the poor people of this site that seem to think this is a giant E-Highschool complete with clicks and incrowds.
This type of mentality seems to be common with any community that is on the fringe of public acceptance. I am reminded of a young boy on stickam who said he was bisexual and when I asked him how he knew he was bisexual he banned me from his room. That same mental path of "its questioning me" "it must not approve of me" "take action" is common here. Like a frustrated little boy who thinks the whole world is against him the people of this site react with a over zealus retribution for anything or anybody that askes to many questions or dose not seem to fit in amoung thier kind. I think this site really needs a "report post" botton so then I could test how unbias and fair the moderation team is when a regular starts throwing a tantrum because I asked them a question. I am confident that if I can find a group were there is less then 2 of those god dammed kids that my chances of getting banned from it or harassed with drop significantly. I don't think they have so much time on thier hands that they will follow me outside thier comfort zone just to berrate me with ad hominem attacks.
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A male chest. The horror. Vile. Vulgar. Obnoxious. Dispicable.
Obviously not ok on a nudie site.
I can say for sure that there is nothing innapropriate about that because my mom has been a child advocate for over 7 years and "touchers" is a common subject of discussion in that circle.
also I NEVER said autism was funny..
I said that it is kinda funny when a child knows more about somebody elses body then they do. So technically I said the resulting benefits and boons of autism are funny and or whimsical.. To take offence to ANYTHING an autistic says without first assuming he or she had no intention of being offencive is stupid and ignorent considering how autism affects the brain.
I got no warnings or advice that ANY of my comments were offencive. Nobody told me, so how was I sapposed to know there was a bunch of people in the group that had no idea how autistic people typically express themselves and took offence to it?
I will admit it was wrong of me to attempt to act like everybody else in the feminism group and say goofy trollish things. But with the exception of that I have done nothing wrong.. If this were any other social networking site I would not be having problems. It just seems like the people here are very high strung and quick to anger. There is a guy at my work like that. You even have to be carfull how you say hi to him otherwise he will think your insulting him and he will complain about you.. So I AM familier with this kind of thing.
let me point out something
"Voland. it's your online behavior. your lack of awareness of the unspoken social norms"
Your words right?
What you describe is a textbook example of autism spectrum disorder... So for THAT to be a reason for banishment from a group ABOUT AUTISM, it only points out how redundant a autism group is if people can get kicked for exhibiting autistic traits. That would be like going to a terrets convention and getting kicked out for having a tick of cursing and screaming.. Just THINK about that for a second.. Dont start thinking about an insult simply stop and THINK about how rediculous that situation would be.. And then you will understand.
I am no longer frustrated I am curious at this point.. That guy at my work only has 1 friend and his friend gets pissed off just as easily as him.. My assumtion is that in a typical social environment this kind of person is rare and when present alienates potential friends..
This site.. or at least parts of it seems to be a statistical anomoly where a large percentage of that kind of person is present in a given environment and instead of THEM being banned and kicked out they themselves being the majority kick out people with a normal emotional ballance. perplexing...