Good evening all... /shrug /sigh.... well I feel like a right bitch... I met this guy a few weeks ago and we've been hanging out a bit latley, getting to know each other and stuff..Think he's off crying somewhere now..Get on failry well, got a lot of things in common and I think he's really nice, but I just want to be his friend... I'm in love with someone as is and do not wish it to be any more complicated than that. My loyaltiy stands side by side with my loneliness.. Unfortunatley he wants more seems and he's already started going crazy obssesive kind of over me... Which really bothers me amongst other things I've notived...
He wants to spend every minute of the day with me and is really "touchy-feely" and shit... And worst of all takes rejection like a 16yr old girl... I find it quite funny in a dark kind of way that he is so wierd... But I can't stand over-dependant people, and he's being fucking silly... It all started about 2 nights after I met him and he's still been silly, Maybe it's just because he's my age and I'm used to older men who knows? but I can't handle it..He has broken almost all of my sacred home of me rules
* He rocked up at my house uninvited and unwarned at about 6am just after we had met.. which is one of my pet hates.. fucking unwanted space invaders, no matter who they are.. besides it's just rude to rock up to someone's house, especially at ungodly hours..
* He rings constanly, at all hours and just keeps ringing... Fuck leave a message, I'm not answering the phone for a reason obviously.... I'll get back to you..
* He comes over and leaves shit he knows that he will need at his house here... c'mon you didn't even need to bring that stuff here and I think you're doing it intentionally so you have to come back seeing you just keep leaving it here.That's is stupid and makes you look immature and obssesive..
* On asking him to come get his things because I had a rent inspection and it was gernrally shitting me off he got all defensive and all like "you don't want me anymore", "Guess I'm not coming back again" blah blah...Seriously What the Fuck?? I'm not seeing you, I hardly know you, I have a rent inspection you twat..
* Don't ask me if you can stay the night, no you can't, I don't want that... And you're making yourself look so fucking desperate..
* Prying into where I am and what I'm doing when I'm not at home is none of your buisness, I'll tell you if I wish to.
*Don't send me text warfare acting like I've broken off a 20year marrige with you because I'm not interested in a relationship and you can't have what you want. It really makes me think you are not infact a nice person but a creep.
BAH THERE"S MORE IN THERE...
So I do the right thing and tell him to back off, before I get nasty. Try to explain nicely that I don't want to be anything but friends and he goes all fucking silly on me again... Carrying on like a little girl... For fuck sake it's a joke.. I don't have time for that shit at all, and quite frankly he can just go away...
I like being alone, I like being at home, my time, my space, me... Everybody knows this about me, and everyone knows I don't play games with people and they only play games with me once and once only... Then it's too late....
... So right now I'm just all round pissed off at the moment, I'm still sick,my phone's going crazy, people are getting in my way, losing what small bit of paticence I have left...Just about had enough of it all...
He wants to spend every minute of the day with me and is really "touchy-feely" and shit... And worst of all takes rejection like a 16yr old girl... I find it quite funny in a dark kind of way that he is so wierd... But I can't stand over-dependant people, and he's being fucking silly... It all started about 2 nights after I met him and he's still been silly, Maybe it's just because he's my age and I'm used to older men who knows? but I can't handle it..He has broken almost all of my sacred home of me rules
* He rocked up at my house uninvited and unwarned at about 6am just after we had met.. which is one of my pet hates.. fucking unwanted space invaders, no matter who they are.. besides it's just rude to rock up to someone's house, especially at ungodly hours..
* He rings constanly, at all hours and just keeps ringing... Fuck leave a message, I'm not answering the phone for a reason obviously.... I'll get back to you..
* He comes over and leaves shit he knows that he will need at his house here... c'mon you didn't even need to bring that stuff here and I think you're doing it intentionally so you have to come back seeing you just keep leaving it here.That's is stupid and makes you look immature and obssesive..
* On asking him to come get his things because I had a rent inspection and it was gernrally shitting me off he got all defensive and all like "you don't want me anymore", "Guess I'm not coming back again" blah blah...Seriously What the Fuck?? I'm not seeing you, I hardly know you, I have a rent inspection you twat..
* Don't ask me if you can stay the night, no you can't, I don't want that... And you're making yourself look so fucking desperate..
* Prying into where I am and what I'm doing when I'm not at home is none of your buisness, I'll tell you if I wish to.
*Don't send me text warfare acting like I've broken off a 20year marrige with you because I'm not interested in a relationship and you can't have what you want. It really makes me think you are not infact a nice person but a creep.
BAH THERE"S MORE IN THERE...
So I do the right thing and tell him to back off, before I get nasty. Try to explain nicely that I don't want to be anything but friends and he goes all fucking silly on me again... Carrying on like a little girl... For fuck sake it's a joke.. I don't have time for that shit at all, and quite frankly he can just go away...
I like being alone, I like being at home, my time, my space, me... Everybody knows this about me, and everyone knows I don't play games with people and they only play games with me once and once only... Then it's too late....
... So right now I'm just all round pissed off at the moment
, I'm still sick,my phone's going crazy, people are getting in my way, losing what small bit of paticence I have left...Just about had enough of it all...
tathra:
that guy sounds like such a girl 
nhpsychobilly131:
Have you ever seen the movie cable guy? does he speak with a lisp by chance? (if you haven't seen the movie then none of that will make sense and i'll look quite the fool, but whatever) ok well creepy priss boys aside, i hope you feel better soon.