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phoenixgirl:
my dear........she is stringing you along, she obviously isnt commited in this relationship, regardless of bieng lesbian or not...when you are seeing someone, and they dont make time for you until they want something, we,, you dont deserve that.i can tell you care for her, but its not going to get any better...and from what i have read ut sounds like she may never come out at all....i think you need to tell her that as much as you care for her, you do not deserve to be treated this way, andjust end it.i think you will behappier....relationships are complicated beasts, and you both have to put forth an effort, it cant be so one sided.....there is someone out there for you, and you will find that someone when you least expect it!!..........its going to be hard with this one, but she isnt worth it, but dont worry, we are here for you! 