violethaze

so i am a HUGE softy. i felt so bad for everyone involved. I started to cry because I didn't want anyone's day ruined. Silent kept telling me to stop crying but i can't help it, i was upset. I cried because i feel helpless if I can't be of any help. Helpful is the one thing i think i'm good at, compassion is the way my mom puts it. i hope that makes sense. I just wanted to cradle and comfort everyone.

there were 2 other cars involved in the fender bender. the 2 old ladies that caused the accident (Ms. D and friend), a nice older but not old African American couple in front of the old ladies (Mr. and Mrs. S), and us. I felt for the the older ladies because they are elderly, the driver's reflexes aren't the same whatnot and she's going to have to pay for the majority with her insurance, her friend had a hard time moving around just even with her walking. Mr. S behind us had a suspended license and was driving his wife to a job interview in a utility car with Wisconsin plates, i'm guessing his work vehicle, he got arrested for having no license. silent's car got crunched in the back.

I talked to everyone at the station while the reports were being filed. The old ladies were shaken but okay. Mrs. S was starting to get a headache and back pains, told me about the job interview but at least she was able to reschedule it for Monday. She was going to an interview for a position that was 30 mins from her home instead of 1hr 30min. Said a lot of people applied for the position. It broke my heart. Couple down on their luck and now a bit worse. The officer said the truck would be towed I think. So I know fines for everything $$$ ...i told her i'd pray for her that she gets the position or maybe even a better one with better pay. everything will work out in the end much better for her and Mr. S. She looked so much more relieved. I told Mrs. S to wait in the station where there is a couch and some warmth and a bathroom if she needed. I was getting a headache and my back was starting to hurt too but I wouldn't admit it at the time I didn't want to worry anyone and I think silent was just being tough too and wouldn't admit that maybe he was getting sore too. he has 2 court dates to go to and they are the day before and after his birthday and i'm going too =/. I'm praying for everyone. I see God answer me all the time =)

when silent and i were able to leave he took me to the burger king by the station because i wanted something from there, so he got us food and i got us the cinnabon yumminess... then to the con!!!!! on the way to the con we saw a sonic that we later stopped by on the way home for dinner.

then i went to my house and passed out in my bed wearing everything i had on all day and with my contacs in. loong but a fun happy day