Life is strange.
After my husband found out about my three month affair we discussed and discussed it over and over again. We are trying our best to make things work. He has forgiven me for everything and while we were talking on Saturday night he confessed to me that he forgives Wog Boy too. He also told me that he kinda misses hanging out with him. So after much discussion we went and visited him. We all talked open and honestly about what had happened, how it elvolved and how we all felt about everything. It was strange. Then we went out and played a game of pool and drank together, just like old times. Very strange and Adam seemed happier.
After my husband found out about my three month affair we discussed and discussed it over and over again. We are trying our best to make things work. He has forgiven me for everything and while we were talking on Saturday night he confessed to me that he forgives Wog Boy too. He also told me that he kinda misses hanging out with him. So after much discussion we went and visited him. We all talked open and honestly about what had happened, how it elvolved and how we all felt about everything. It was strange. Then we went out and played a game of pool and drank together, just like old times. Very strange and Adam seemed happier.
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Maybe we'll be in town together some day. Then we must drink & dance!
Seriously, if you are ever in the position to buy a big house with a big yard, don't. Biggest mistake of my life. Upkeep consumes every available minute of my free time. I would so much rather play with my little boy, go fishing, or fuck my wife. Not necessarily in that order. But instead, I'm constantly taking care of stuff around here. Okay, okay. I do make time for a couple of those things on my list. But damn it, my fishing suffers as a result!
Next time around (if there ever will be, the way the economy and real-estate market have gone, I'd have to write a huge check just to move), it will be something small and easy to maintain. Just sayin.
All that aside, it is fun to get out and do some hard labor once in a while. Had my 70-year old dad over tonight, and we got the whole deck framed in just 6 hours. Must have been our combined 110 years of experience!
Anyway, enough of that. I am thinking good thoughts about you. I know your day-to-day situation is not what you want it to be, but you have an apparently resilient love with Adam, and Wog Boy has been forgiven, and you have beautiful, wonderful children whom you love, and who love you unconditionally. Enjoy all of that, and regarding your in-laws, as my college roommate was fond of saying, "Illegitimi non carborundum" -- don't let the bastards wear you down.
Peace,
SWBdog