Friday Jul 26, 2013

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Sometimes you have to define the point.... are you settling for less than you deserve because you're afraid of being alone, or are you over reacting and are things going to get better...


I feel like I shouldn't be contemplating this for months at a time..
I don't think I even belong where I am, and I hope I am right.

Being with someone on and off for five years is exhausting ... especially at my age where life is only beginning.
I really don't know what to do anymore. I just really don't. He's my best friend, we've been through so much... and I've tried dating other people when we were on one of our breaks.... and I just wanted him back the whole time, and indeed I came back to him. I feel blinded. I just don't think I should feel so sad if I'm in love...

I need advice... just someone on the outside perspective, this town is too small.
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rebletattoo:
my wife and i have been through hell...stress of life...money issues...cheating...lies...fights to the point of physical contact, but we have never taken a "break" and we have always worked things out no matter how hard it gets...this december will be 15 years...if you really love each other then you will make it work no matter what without a break which really causes more harm than good in the long run...can't say that things will get better...just easier to deal with once you have each other figured out...basically if it feels right even though it may feel wrong at times, then just go with it...pain is a fact of life whether we like it or not, but so is love...I hope you find that the latter is the stronger feeling
butcha:
That inner voice is never wrong. You must look inside yourself to decide what is best for you.

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. " -Ralph Waldo Emerson

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