I've had too much 'life experience' to this point, thats for sure, but then again, is it possible to have too much?
Coming to SG, I guess I had a bit of an agenda, which was to sort of 'out' myself, to experiment, to get answers to questions I might not ask gals face to face unless I was seriously involved with them. Not to mention from gals as unique & special as a SG.....or the many bright people on this site......
Of course, many of these questions are sexual......sexual with a spin......
In 1988 at age 15, I broke my neck in the lower C vertebrae in a diving accident............writing that gives me a chill, I am TERRIFIED of sounding 'hung up' on it, like a whiner, being guessed a self-serving fatalist seeking pity, anyone who knows me knows I'm the opposite.....I NEVER talk about it.........I own it........I'm very adept at dealing with all aspects of the injury, I in no way DEFINE myself by it.............okay, I am running long, I'm gonna jump straight to a question thats been eating me up lately.......
If you saw an attractive person in a wheelchair (yes I use one), do you assume them to be non-sexual? Impotent in some way? Do you not, but fear that person will THINK you are assuming this? Have you never thought about it? If it were you in my situation, how do you think you'd react?
I gotta say, it can be a stereotype behind which I feel hidden, but can often be true.......for me luckily its not, the woods all good......but I worry I dont get 'come on to' as much because this stereotype is riding my ass like Sigfried rides Roy..........am I right? Wrong? In between? Thinking about it too much? (I'm famous for that)..........Am I underestimating people? Any feedback would be great & much appreciated...........shit its hard to put this 'matzaball' out there, but I am curious, so much its killing me..........
Coming to SG, I guess I had a bit of an agenda, which was to sort of 'out' myself, to experiment, to get answers to questions I might not ask gals face to face unless I was seriously involved with them. Not to mention from gals as unique & special as a SG.....or the many bright people on this site......
Of course, many of these questions are sexual......sexual with a spin......
In 1988 at age 15, I broke my neck in the lower C vertebrae in a diving accident............writing that gives me a chill, I am TERRIFIED of sounding 'hung up' on it, like a whiner, being guessed a self-serving fatalist seeking pity, anyone who knows me knows I'm the opposite.....I NEVER talk about it.........I own it........I'm very adept at dealing with all aspects of the injury, I in no way DEFINE myself by it.............okay, I am running long, I'm gonna jump straight to a question thats been eating me up lately.......
If you saw an attractive person in a wheelchair (yes I use one), do you assume them to be non-sexual? Impotent in some way? Do you not, but fear that person will THINK you are assuming this? Have you never thought about it? If it were you in my situation, how do you think you'd react?
I gotta say, it can be a stereotype behind which I feel hidden, but can often be true.......for me luckily its not, the woods all good......but I worry I dont get 'come on to' as much because this stereotype is riding my ass like Sigfried rides Roy..........am I right? Wrong? In between? Thinking about it too much? (I'm famous for that)..........Am I underestimating people? Any feedback would be great & much appreciated...........shit its hard to put this 'matzaball' out there, but I am curious, so much its killing me..........
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Everyone said what I woul'dve said. I'd be forthright about it (I'm great at being forthright). I wouldn't find someone sexually unattractive for being in a wheelchair, I'd probably delude myself into thinking there was less odds of casual sex to the whole thing and probably let my guard down romantically more.