valexis

so . . . my ass got dumped.

not because of anything aside from his life was too busy for me to be a part of.

since he's a member of SG, do i tell the rest? it actually worked out ok.

life's good aside from emotional turmoil. new birth control pill fuck-ups (as in i forget to fucking take them) bring my period almost every other fucking week. mood swings are making me crazy. yesterday i cried in the shower about a leak that needs to get fixed.

current boyfriend is going well.

recent ex is coming to town sunday. plans are made to hang out....
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In response to a question regarding the ex, yes, we do keep in touch. We've bee best friends since high school, it's hard to just give that up.

anyway, he works non stop, which has its plus and minuses. Hi's always busy but never spends money as a result.

He bought a new (big-ass) truck, a new washer and dryer, and was recntly approved for...
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things are going really freaking swell. seriously. just got back from a weekend in Huntington beach (for the rest of us, that's in the O.C. near LA) and met my BF's entire family. It was really nice. He's so lucky that his family gets along disgustingly well. His mom and step-dad came over to the barbecue at his dad and step-mom's house. Weird right?

Made...
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Just returned from a week in Vermont with the family. We stayed in a cabin right on Lake Champlain (really nice!) but it was in the middle of bum-fuck nowhere. My mother is a really difficult person to travel with so much of the time was spent in uncomfortable moments. I did however, develop a fucking RAD tan (when it wasn't raining!). I love having...
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My great BF that i met on SG is the greatest thing. For my special day he had planned: whatever breakfast I wanted, message and facial at the local spa, fancy dinner, and jazz concert. this guy's the greatest.

Too bad I let a urniary tract infection invade my intire body to the point that my skin hurt. Had I known, I would have done...
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My new boyfriend asked me to go steady a couple of weeks ago. Yes, in those words. He's so great. Although he has a profile up here, he never checks it. I try to show his pic to friends but it's not very helpful. I should take pictures and put them up.

Reasons this one's better than the others:
1. knows his boundaries

2. educated...
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i realize that i haven't had time to reply to comments from folks, so sorry about that. having a great new beau takes up my computer time.

anyhoo . . .

the ex is being an idiot. to sum it up, he got drunk (one of a few tmies lately) and mentioned that i should change my password to this account since he got depressed...
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Isn't it wierd how things can suddenly start to go right?

Everything is freaking fantastic.

Seeing a super guy. All my friends have found someone as well. i wonder if it's the weather that makes people come out of their winter shells. or maybe we all just gave up being shy at the same time.

Summer is almost here. Only 12 days of school left,...
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Wow, how fast time flies. I got back on Friday from a science-filled week of outdoor environmental camp. We took 75 kids in all.

Camp isn't really the correct word, more like Camp Med. This is the third year I've gone with my little 6th graders. They learn about science, decay and rocks. I . . . well, I pretty much read my book. I...
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