I just got home from picking the kid(s) from their dads. This is never a pleasant experience for me. Ever. Now...its 4:30 in the afternoon, ok? I get there, the front door is wide open and I dont see anyone in the living room but the carseat is outside.
Oh, I might wanna add that they live in a condo and each building has 4 units. Theirs is on the side. Their garage is at the back of the building. And this community is not gated.
Anyhow...I put the carseat in the car and then went and knocked on the door. Thinking maybe everyone is upstairs...something. I knock...and nothing.
So Im wondering now where everyone is. Finally I hear their dad laugh. Hes in the garage...I start to walk around the building. His girlfriends truck is gone, so Im thinking hes got the kids out there with him.
Surprise surprise he doesnt. Where were they you ask? Upstairs in the condo sleeping. With no adult in the house and the front door is WIDE FUCKING OPEN.
I've become a master at being able to hide when Im pissed off around him because otherwise an arguement starts and that does not need to happen in front of the kids.
So, here I sit highly irritated. Contemplating how I should handle this. I know something needs to be done. And it will get taken care of, but I need to cover my bases here so that he doesnt try to fuck me over in the process. Thats just the type of person he is.
Edit cause im a moron. Also: Remember how I said it was 4:30pm. And they were upstairs sleeping? Thanks asshole....now they arent going to go to bed, which means I wont get a decent nights sleep and they will be hard as fuck to wake up tomorrow morning.
Oh, I might wanna add that they live in a condo and each building has 4 units. Theirs is on the side. Their garage is at the back of the building. And this community is not gated.
Anyhow...I put the carseat in the car and then went and knocked on the door. Thinking maybe everyone is upstairs...something. I knock...and nothing.

So Im wondering now where everyone is. Finally I hear their dad laugh. Hes in the garage...I start to walk around the building. His girlfriends truck is gone, so Im thinking hes got the kids out there with him.
Surprise surprise he doesnt. Where were they you ask? Upstairs in the condo sleeping. With no adult in the house and the front door is WIDE FUCKING OPEN.

I've become a master at being able to hide when Im pissed off around him because otherwise an arguement starts and that does not need to happen in front of the kids.
So, here I sit highly irritated. Contemplating how I should handle this. I know something needs to be done. And it will get taken care of, but I need to cover my bases here so that he doesnt try to fuck me over in the process. Thats just the type of person he is.
Edit cause im a moron. Also: Remember how I said it was 4:30pm. And they were upstairs sleeping? Thanks asshole....now they arent going to go to bed, which means I wont get a decent nights sleep and they will be hard as fuck to wake up tomorrow morning.
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loslope:
As a former Cop, and a paranoid freak, I can tell you what will solve it all (in the end) DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!! Really, you can't deny times, conditions, photos or just you're written word, with the facts, against his recolections.
loslope:
Another great one. I am a moron for quotes. Have a great day!
