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Welp, We have finally arrived at the emotion that means the most to me, In so many different ways. So lets talk about all of it, Because these days, and this time in this hectic world, Everyone can use some love. I love people. These days, I love everyone. I dont need a reason or a motive behind that. I dont judge people anymore, and just love everyone. I dont care if you're the creepy guy on here who wants nothing but to talk about slamming the girls on here, Or the girl on here who is shallow as a shower or only cares about being paid by people. To each their own, And it's okay to be anything in between. I understand that everyone enjoys something different, And we all deserve love and happiness regardless of who you are. I love a few of the girls on here, Of course in non-romantic ways, But i absolutely adore them. @magnea @luciloser @oogie @lemon . All of you 4 are people who i very much love on here, Take that for what you will, but you 4 ladies mean a lot to me lately, And its interesting because i dont really know any of you that well. But like i said, I love everyone, and all of you have given me entertainment in more ways than one. I care about all of you and i would do anything i can to help any of you if you ever need it. And honestly, Anyone else for that matter. If anyone ever needs someone to talk to about whatever, Or vent a little. Im here for all of you. Im great at listening, and sometimes i have some pretty killer advice. Not always, Sometimes im stumped, but i try my damned hardest to supply an option to follow if you are looking for one. But I love you four. Im proud of all of you for being such amazing people, And im so grateful I have met all of you, Even if you leave or go AWOL, It's okay, Just remember I'm always around if you need someone to talk to. I dont wish to impose on any of you, And sorry if I even divulge too much to any of you that you dont wanna hear. I dont mean to. Love is, For lack of better words a wonderful thing. Because it can take so many shapes and mean so many different things. You love your friends, You love your family. You love a partner. You love strangers (at least i do). Really loving friends and strangers is kinda the same kind of love to me. I love you like you're a friend. I get joy and happiness from loving other people just for being themselves, even if you are an insufferable cunt, I still love you for being you and being unique. Romantic love is the one that is different, To me, The people who i've been with, I've loved more and more based on communication...To me, Communication makes me fall in love with people more than anything else, That an acceptance. Because they are two key components to making things work. No one is perfect, We all have flaws, But that doesnt mean you cant communicate how things make you feel, That is the base of every strong relationship...Not whether or not you always get along, If you never test the waters in your relationship, you never know how well it will fare in rocky waters. It's all about learning, adapting, and changing things together to make it calm again. And after communication, Its all about acceptance. Just because someone isnt perfect doesnt give you the right to belittle them, or make them feel less of a human being. Im proud of every single fucking person who is alive on this earth. There are people who give up because it's easy to do. Just being alive is an amazing feat in itself, And dont you ever let someone bring you down or tell you that you arent good enough, because in my eye, you are always good enough. That is what matters the most to me now, I used to be one that was shallow as a shower, But over time I've become more emotionally attached to people than physically attached. Which is why i prefer just casually talking to girls on here than being involved in the sex so heavily that they are nothing but objects. Because anyone reading this should know, The four amazing human beings I have tagged in this, Are some of the most deserving people of being happy and loved that i've ever known. Obviously, none of them perfect. But they are such an inspiration for me, And they are so easily loved by me because of what they mean to me. I love all of them. Anyway, Back to the romantic love, The communication and the acceptance of flaws will always be the two hardest, but most crucial things in a relationship. If you are afraid to communicate for fear of being judged or put down, GET OUT. It will never be happily ever after if you can't learn and grow together to learn that, I dont care how pretty you think you are, If you aren't able to do these things, you need to work on yourself, And if you're with someone who cant do this, Then you arent ready to be together. You need to both be in a space that allows for acceptance and communication. You need to learn to be able to do that without lashing out at once another. Loving unconditionally of people is interesting, I feel like im such a wonderful person, Not that im perfect, because i have flaws. But i prefer being the nice guy who has a group of lovely friends whom i love than having to be that bad boy anymore that gets the girl. One day the nice guy eventually finds his princess, Even if he waits until the end to find that, Patience is a virtue and we could all learn to have more of it. That is what love means to me. This is a big one, If you read all of this, Thank you so much. What does love mean to you? <3