At an Ex's request I toook this fucking thing....funny thing,s it showed incompatible we were....ha!
E-harmony results:
You are skilled at finding "win-win" solutions when conflicts arise.
You are socially poised and people-oriented.
You like to initiate new activities.
You often have innovative ideas.
You like to take the initiative when something needs to be done.
You tend to be tenacious about solving problems, not liking to give up until something is resolved.
You tend to enjoy life and share that enjoyment with others.
You generally dislike the "status quo," and are exhilarating to be around.
You are very good at communicating with others and seeing their point of view.
You like to take action and see that things get done.
You tend to be very goal-oriented.
You love challenges and competition. At the same time, you must realize and appreciate that others may not share your zest for challenges and competition.
You have a natural enthusiasm for the activities you prefer. Because of your enthusiasm, you may forget that others have different wants and needs.
Your primary social strategy is making things happen and happen now. Usually very active, you thrive on challenge. When the going gets tough, you get going.
In social situations, you prefer variety, adventure and the unusual. You may lose interest if you feel a situation is becoming routine. As a result, you must be kept busy and involved with making things happen.
You respect those who win out against the odds and show persistence. You set high goals for yourself and others.
You have a high interest in the new, the unusual and the adventurous. You may also be curious and have a wide range of interests, preferring an ever-changing environment.
You love challenges and competition. Those who know you may consider you to be a high risk-taker.
You will take issue and not shy away from confrontation when others disagree with how you feel or think.
You are active in the things you do and in your communication. Your rapid mental activity becomes apparent when, rather than listening to others, you will be thinking of what you might say next.
You have a natural competitive style. It is important for you to feed that competitive spirit, while also showing more patience with those who choose not to be so competitive.
Your high ego traits coupled with impatience may have others read you as arrogant at times. This is only appreciated by others when they understand that you need quick results, challenges and competition.
Not having a climate of challenges and competition may cause you to create such a climate. You perform best under pressure, and may assume that others want the same...your assumption is not always true.
Having a variety of results at stake brings out the best in you. Your great strength is in directing yourself and others toward specific activities results.
My partner should have:
Ask for opinions and ideas.
Provide options, rather than opinions.
Talk about new ideas, innovations and activities.
Provide questions and choices for making decisions.
Talk about expectations.
Ask specific questions--preferably "WHAT" questions.
Take issue with the facts, not the person, if you disagree.
Be ready at the exact time.
Be prepared to listen to many stories.
Be brief, clear and to the point.
Present ideas logically--be efficient.
Peace and harmony.
A friendly, favorable social environment.
An environment free from conflict or hostility.
An audience to perform to and entertain.
Support of your ideas and dreams.
Equal relations with others.
Social recognition of your accomplishments.
Recognition of skills and ability.
Activities involving contact with many people.
Many and varied activities.
Protection or insulation from aggression or confrontation.
I think I come out like an asshole on this.....
E-harmony results:
You are skilled at finding "win-win" solutions when conflicts arise.
You are socially poised and people-oriented.
You like to initiate new activities.
You often have innovative ideas.
You like to take the initiative when something needs to be done.
You tend to be tenacious about solving problems, not liking to give up until something is resolved.
You tend to enjoy life and share that enjoyment with others.
You generally dislike the "status quo," and are exhilarating to be around.
You are very good at communicating with others and seeing their point of view.
You like to take action and see that things get done.
You tend to be very goal-oriented.
You love challenges and competition. At the same time, you must realize and appreciate that others may not share your zest for challenges and competition.
You have a natural enthusiasm for the activities you prefer. Because of your enthusiasm, you may forget that others have different wants and needs.
Your primary social strategy is making things happen and happen now. Usually very active, you thrive on challenge. When the going gets tough, you get going.
In social situations, you prefer variety, adventure and the unusual. You may lose interest if you feel a situation is becoming routine. As a result, you must be kept busy and involved with making things happen.
You respect those who win out against the odds and show persistence. You set high goals for yourself and others.
You have a high interest in the new, the unusual and the adventurous. You may also be curious and have a wide range of interests, preferring an ever-changing environment.
You love challenges and competition. Those who know you may consider you to be a high risk-taker.
You will take issue and not shy away from confrontation when others disagree with how you feel or think.
You are active in the things you do and in your communication. Your rapid mental activity becomes apparent when, rather than listening to others, you will be thinking of what you might say next.
You have a natural competitive style. It is important for you to feed that competitive spirit, while also showing more patience with those who choose not to be so competitive.
Your high ego traits coupled with impatience may have others read you as arrogant at times. This is only appreciated by others when they understand that you need quick results, challenges and competition.
Not having a climate of challenges and competition may cause you to create such a climate. You perform best under pressure, and may assume that others want the same...your assumption is not always true.
Having a variety of results at stake brings out the best in you. Your great strength is in directing yourself and others toward specific activities results.
My partner should have:
Ask for opinions and ideas.
Provide options, rather than opinions.
Talk about new ideas, innovations and activities.
Provide questions and choices for making decisions.
Talk about expectations.
Ask specific questions--preferably "WHAT" questions.
Take issue with the facts, not the person, if you disagree.
Be ready at the exact time.
Be prepared to listen to many stories.
Be brief, clear and to the point.
Present ideas logically--be efficient.
Peace and harmony.
A friendly, favorable social environment.
An environment free from conflict or hostility.
An audience to perform to and entertain.
Support of your ideas and dreams.
Equal relations with others.
Social recognition of your accomplishments.
Recognition of skills and ability.
Activities involving contact with many people.
Many and varied activities.
Protection or insulation from aggression or confrontation.
I think I come out like an asshole on this.....
rexphantom:
It all sounds fair to me.