So, need some feedback on a situation. I met a girl about three months ago. We have been seeing each other casually. We get together and have great time, then she drops off the radar for weeks at a time. No calls, no texts, nothing. I attributed it to the fact that she is a flight attendant and her schedule if unpredictable. However, this last go around was crazy. We had a couple great dates, then she fell off the radar again. Two weeks without a text or anything. So tonight as I am leaving my bar I see her walking into her place with some dude. I'm thinking to myself, well that explains a lot. I send her a text telling her what I had seen and that I wish she had had the guts to tell me.
So her response was that the dude was from couchsurfing.com (yes, she is a member) and that they had been hanging out with her friends. She then said that I was not her boyfriend and to stop acting crazy.
I asked her to see things from my point of view. Her response was "OK dude, sorry for your hurt feelings, really. Take care.
Ok folks WTF? Yes, I really like this girl but am I being unreasonable here? I'm really not looking for this much drama in my life.
So her response was that the dude was from couchsurfing.com (yes, she is a member) and that they had been hanging out with her friends. She then said that I was not her boyfriend and to stop acting crazy.
I asked her to see things from my point of view. Her response was "OK dude, sorry for your hurt feelings, really. Take care.
Ok folks WTF? Yes, I really like this girl but am I being unreasonable here? I'm really not looking for this much drama in my life.
aristophanes:
I'm rather put off the whole concept of dating. I think in this day and age you may have to flat out ask people right away "Are we dating exclusively?" or something to that effect if you don't already know them well enough to know the answer.
