Hey SG world. I need your help/advice

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I have to do this here, because I don’t know who else to tell... I’m a groomsman at my best friend’s wedding. My best friend is gay. He invited me to his bachelor party which he says will also be very gay. He told me I wouldn’t have to go if I didn’t feel comfortable.

Now for the interesting part: the last couple years, I’ve contemplated my gender identity and sexuality. I find a certain type of man attractive and have watched guys do solo stuff as well as trans and MMF bi- threesomes. NOBODY knows any of this except you all. Not even him.

My friend told me I would probably be hit on and possibly even minorly pressured into participating and I’m not sure if I’m into the physical of it all... but I might be.

TL;DR: going to a gay bachelor party, I think I’m bi, but not sure if I’d be open for man sex. Thoughts?

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truetrue316:
@charliegurl, thanks for the reply. It means a lot to me that you’re keeping up with my journey
imaredhead:
Mate the only reason why this is even a question is based on social conditioning and what convention dictates not much of a complicated one, I say you only have one life and each minute hour and day that goes by where you live in fear of what is to come you end up missing the present, don’t get me wrong it is easy to be objective and this must tear you up. live a fun, kind and honest life how could you go wrong. Lastly if anyone has an opinion on how you should love, kiss or massturbate too ignore them and keep watching those men if that’s what you want.

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