I have to do this here, because I don’t know who else to tell... I’m a groomsman at my best friend’s wedding. My best friend is gay. He invited me to his bachelor party which he says will also be very gay. He told me I wouldn’t have to go if I didn’t feel comfortable.
Now for the interesting part: the last couple years, I’ve contemplated my gender identity and sexuality. I find a certain type of man attractive and have watched guys do solo stuff as well as trans and MMF bi- threesomes. NOBODY knows any of this except you all. Not even him.
My friend told me I would probably be hit on and possibly even minorly pressured into participating and I’m not sure if I’m into the physical of it all... but I might be.
TL;DR: going to a gay bachelor party, I think I’m bi, but not sure if I’d be open for man sex. Thoughts?
