triptick

So recently I was reading about the model Daria and how she's this incredible model who is more than good looks - intelligence, power, business minded - while at the same time gracious and un-prima. Meanwhile, they're showing her in her casual clothes and honest to god, you could miss her on the street. At the same time I was reading about women cheating on their partners and the latest stats on the divorce rate etc. etc. So I got to thinking about men and women and sex in relationships (like money, a large stumbling block). It seems to me that as men, we want our women comfortable, casual, approachable, real on a daily basis. When it's time to get up and put on the toast and get ready for work, I want someone who's practical and efficient. When it's hanging out time I want someone I can talk to, laugh with, identify with. There's nothing fancy about this. Often, I want sex to be that way too. At the same time, I want to know that my woman is capable of putting the sex on, ya know? Not a performance for my sake, but a genuine expression of feminine sexuality and power. Dressing the part, acting the part. This is why we look at magazines and rave about models like they are godesses. It's the power of a woman who knows, loves and shows her sexual power that makes us feel like powerful men when we join with them. What I love about this is that every woman is capable of some extent of sexual expression. It can be as simple as displaying sexual desire and making good on it. What idles us men, sometimes is the need to tickle and tease the sex out of our partners. You typically don't think of having to drag Superman out of the cave of ice to battle evil. Even if he does the deed, there is something lost in the need to motivate him. Message to women (if there is one): show us your inner heroes. Rise, out of your caves and envelop us. I'm pretty sure we'll rise to the occasion.