trickynicki

Mia wants Taco Bell so we stop and get a table while she orders. The friend asks why Mia has Pennsylvania plates on her car when she lives in Columbus. I said just because she goes to school here, she still has a permanent address in PA. He says, oh well I would want to change everything to Ohio, we are one of the most influence states in voting. Trying to humor him, I say "Oh really?" His reply, "Yeah. Were you asleep during the whole 2004 election or just fucking some random guy the whole time?"

Excuse me?? You don't know me. You know nothing about me. You know I used to hook up with one of your friends and we didn't even have sex and I had had a crush on him the entire year leading up to it. Fuck you. You are worthless. You're one of the supercool people who has to announce when they are drunk and how fucked up they are just incase everyone around you can't already tell by your stumbling, rude, rambling ass.

If it were a dude, no one would think anything of it. But God forbid a confident young woman enjoy sex with the people she is attracted to. What a slut. I don't have sex because I have self esteem issues, I wasn't abused, I'm not empty inside, I am over any incident that has happened in the past and it doesn't affect my sexual decisions today. I have never taken someone home from a bar. I am with people I trust, I am safe, I am clean and there is not a damn thing wrong if I want to get laid at any given time damnit. To each their own, if you don't want to, don't do it, but fuck you for judging me if I choose to do something different.

And another thing, a girl wearing short shorts or something is not an invitation for you to grab her ass. If a girl is sexy and confident and feels like showing it off, let her do what she damn well pleases. Clothes do not make the person. One of the bartenders I'm friends with, Tara, had on very short shorts and a patron felt her up. He was thrown out, but Omari and his friend continued after to say how she was asking for it. She is a pretty girl, if she wants to do that, do it, idiots who can't handle their hormones are not the girls problem. People do what they need to do to keep money in the bank. I bet that girl made an easy $300++ last night and it was a Thursday, good for her. She knows what she has to do to get the job done and has always taken care of me.

When we were leaving after the ass grab incident, Mia was trying to close her tab. The bar is crowded as hell and it's taking time to get a bartender. Let me paint the picture for you, Mia is not making eye contact, still drinking her Miller, not holding out a hand, not saying anything, not holding a card or $... I wouldn't fucking come help your ass either if I had a line. Well she gets pissed and says my girl Ashley is just waiting on the guys and ignoring her and starts going on about what a bitch she is. Ashley then serves 2 girls... yeah, obviously serving only guys, riiiight. So I push in next to Mia, stick out my hand, help the guy John wipe off the bar, and he waits on me. EIther be nice or get their attention, it's common sense. We weren't the 1st ppl there, we didn't deserve to be waited on 1st. So Mia doesnt leave a tip, I roll my eyes, give a couple bucks to each of them and head for the door. She however, proceded to bitch the whole way home. This isn't small town PA, ppl don't know you or care who you are, just be patient and assertive, ugh!!