How odd is it that as soon as I am out of a relationship I begin to feel the interest of women?
I wouldnt say I was a ladies man by any means, but I have always been able to make plenty of friends, girls included. But now some of them seem like they are trying to be more than friends. The idea of this is comforting and flattering in a way, but I am in no rush to be in a relationship with anyone no matter what the level and I damn sure do not want to risk a friendship at the same time.
If I am such a catch that I am being scooped up as soon as I am single why am I single to begin with? I have been soul searching to discover where I am flawed that prevents me from having a long term relationship. I have even had a relationship that lasted for almost two years, split for almost two, and got back together for about nine months... living together and everything. This leads me to believe that this particular woman had very strong feelings for me, but something I was doing wore the relationship down in the long run....?
As my last relationship has ended, it was just months of constant yoyoing by her emotionally, either she wanted me around every free second of my time, or I could barely get her to respond to my text.... "Hey what's up? You got plans for tonight?" And then nothing for three days.... I didnt know how to take this, but I have had feelings for this girl for twice as long as we were together. Anyway when she said it was over it wasnt unexpected.
What was is girls I havent talked to in years started comunicating with me at the same time. They didnt know I was in a relationship or that I just got out of one, but the timing is incredible. It is weirding me out actually.... But that is neither here nore there because they have no chance at being more than friends. I have to find out what is making me kill these relationships, or if it is me at all?
No pain in the world as someone you love turning their back on you.... and it never makes sense. Nor can it be explained. I need a new profile pick!
I wouldnt say I was a ladies man by any means, but I have always been able to make plenty of friends, girls included. But now some of them seem like they are trying to be more than friends. The idea of this is comforting and flattering in a way, but I am in no rush to be in a relationship with anyone no matter what the level and I damn sure do not want to risk a friendship at the same time.
If I am such a catch that I am being scooped up as soon as I am single why am I single to begin with? I have been soul searching to discover where I am flawed that prevents me from having a long term relationship. I have even had a relationship that lasted for almost two years, split for almost two, and got back together for about nine months... living together and everything. This leads me to believe that this particular woman had very strong feelings for me, but something I was doing wore the relationship down in the long run....?
As my last relationship has ended, it was just months of constant yoyoing by her emotionally, either she wanted me around every free second of my time, or I could barely get her to respond to my text.... "Hey what's up? You got plans for tonight?" And then nothing for three days.... I didnt know how to take this, but I have had feelings for this girl for twice as long as we were together. Anyway when she said it was over it wasnt unexpected.
What was is girls I havent talked to in years started comunicating with me at the same time. They didnt know I was in a relationship or that I just got out of one, but the timing is incredible. It is weirding me out actually.... But that is neither here nore there because they have no chance at being more than friends. I have to find out what is making me kill these relationships, or if it is me at all?
No pain in the world as someone you love turning their back on you.... and it never makes sense. Nor can it be explained. I need a new profile pick!