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so a slight update to my earlier entry...

my "friend with benefits" situation has gotten a little tricky. turns out my assumptions were right. this guy is way into than just more as a f--k buddy. he actually is interested in a "relationship," if i'm interested in one. i really like this guy and we get along great. i'd just hate to lose such an...
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webigailboop:
that thing with your crush is kind of creepy eeek
sex without any emotion is so hard to accomplish, i haven't been able to do it yet.
webigailboop:
thanks for the advice in my journal, it helps to know that other people have felt the same way
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so many issues... so little time...

so, i'm starting to get past the fact that this guy i was so into and who claimed was so into me basically gave me the "let's be friends" speech after a solid week of hooking up. i'm still so confused about it all though. i mean who does that?! who continuely tells someone how awesome and wonderful they...
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cherryb0mb:
unfortuneately, it seems like most of the guys i've dated fall into the same category as the last guy you mentioned. i feel like not many boyfriends actually got to know the real me. frown

and whoa, the friends with benefits guy seems like he would make the perfect boyfriend.

it's hard to find a truly good match, so don't stay away from guys forever. sometimes it takes a lot of heartache before you find the right one.

as for me, i'm taking a break from men for awhile. maybe i am truly meant to be with a woman. i don't know. i just don't want to get involved in another relationship anytime soon.
xmindxlessx:
Boys are just REALLY stupid, but through experience I've learned that alot of girls can be just as stupid. I think its a lose/lose situation. Becoming asexual seems to be the way to go...heh heh. It sounds like you could have a good time with the second boy, but you might end up getting really into it without even really noticing until you're in really deep. But if somehow you can manage to keep a friendship while having some benefits, go for it. Have fun, and if he makes you happy, I say see what goes, but be careful. biggrin
*koz*
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so once upon a time i developed an intense crush on this guy. he had a crush on me. we hooked up (ie had some great sex) one week later he's giving me the "we should just be friends" speech. he doesn't call me for a few days. then suddenly he wants to hang out again. i hug him. he freaks out thinking the hug...
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cherryb0mb:
guys are confusing. us girls can be just as confusing, though. this guy is the type of guy you should avoid, only because these mixed signals will break your heart over and over again. i know it's hard, because i have been there before.

welcome to the site, by the way. i think i know you from another site, well know OF you... that is, if you use the same username.

xo.
oooowwww:
hey man dont worry about it
im a cool guy
and i live in jersey
hehehehe