Where do I start ? 2013, really is a horrible year as it looks like I have lost just about everyone I care for. Mother has developed Dementia and is totally oblivious to whom I am now. I lost my Dad to lung cancer on the 21st September, and on the same day he was admitted to hospital, mother was as well as she had a fall in the care home and has broken her hip. 2 weeks later, she fell again dislocating the same hip and they cannot put it back in, an op is out of the question due to her age.
Having to deal with all the paperwork that Dad left as he kept no records, no statements, nothing, so I am having piece together his finances from scraps of paper, the odd bank statement. People wont deal with me as mother is still alive> I cannot get Power of Attorney as she is still alive and needs to sign me over as her guardian, which is impossible asn she is unable to sign for anything. So its 2 steps forward, 30 steps back !
I went back to work after 4 days of seeing to Dad and setting up everything for his end of life only to be disciplined for taking time off without consent!
My wife hahahahahaha, developed breast cancer and wasn't going to tell me. Only told me as she said I would notice the bruising. It has spread to her lymph nodes so another op to remove the infected nodes. And to top it off, she spends more time walking our dog with another man, 2-4 hours every Sunday morning. He also rings her most nights to see "How she is doing!" I have no concrete evidence as to anything going on, but I am sure there is ( no sex in 6 months maybe ? )
Those that know me say I am one of the NICEST people you could meet. I always have time for anyone and will help wherever I can, yet when I need people to be there for me, I am so alone :( I want to cry but cant