So, 43 ... It DOESN'T SUCK! I worry a LOT less about things that used to really bother me... I still worry about friends who think small things still actually MEAN something... It's the WHOLE PROCESS of getting older... I can message people who matter to me, I can tell others to just "fuck off" because they don't mean jack SHIT to me...It's just LIFE, ya Know? There ARE IMPORTANT people here... Some of whom are VERY important...My friends KNOW who they are, and My Prospective friends KNOW I am for REAL... THAT IS ALL I NEED!