Ok Ladies and Gentleman,
Here is the topic for the evening, or at least one of the many bits and pieces bouncing around my head. So I have been thinking about time a lot lately, mostly about the lack there of. One of the most nagging aspects of this so-called adult life is the intense desire to learn everything about everything. At one time I...
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Here is the topic for the evening, or at least one of the many bits and pieces bouncing around my head. So I have been thinking about time a lot lately, mostly about the lack there of. One of the most nagging aspects of this so-called adult life is the intense desire to learn everything about everything. At one time I...
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Howdy Folks,
Sorry for the break, but I got busy, So here is another moral dilemma I have been facing over the last few days, part of the reason I haven't been here, I have been beating my head rapidly and violently against any hard, pointy objects handy.
So here is the deal, I once had to face a bit if a ethical challenge, I...
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Sorry for the break, but I got busy, So here is another moral dilemma I have been facing over the last few days, part of the reason I haven't been here, I have been beating my head rapidly and violently against any hard, pointy objects handy.
So here is the deal, I once had to face a bit if a ethical challenge, I...
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Howzit folks?
Hope everyone had a good break. I have and will continue to put forth the rambling ideas here that pop into my head, for public consumption or mocking, whatever suites ya
So the latest tangent that I have been mulling over is the idea of age and dating. I have single friends that range from 22 to 50 and the dynamics of their...
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Hope everyone had a good break. I have and will continue to put forth the rambling ideas here that pop into my head, for public consumption or mocking, whatever suites ya
So the latest tangent that I have been mulling over is the idea of age and dating. I have single friends that range from 22 to 50 and the dynamics of their...
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scorpio_:
I think that age is a number that too many people mistakenly associate with an increase - or decrease - in intelligence and maturity. Age, as the old cliche puts it, is merely a number. It's that spark of interest, that pain you feel in the pit of your stomach when you're in that person's presence that tells you all you really need to know about true love. But with age comes responsibility, and people tend to forget how to love someone with that same type of raw unbridled passion that you speak of from their youth. It doesn't disappear, it's merely misplaced. But many people have trouble finding it once it's gone, and too many adults end up divorced because they don't know how to keep that passion in a relationship alive.
Sure, people mature with age. That's a given. They also change with time, and learn to incorporate the changes in the outside world to the one that lies in the bedroom. Yet somehow along the way, people forget what it means to love, and to be loved. People get so caught up in life; bills can choke a person, families get in the way, life happens, and passion is forgotten. But the sparks and interest you speak of has to be maintained. When people forget to treasure the small things in life, like being with someone they love, they lose more than the fire and lust that is a key part of any relationship. They lose a part of themselves, and rarely do they get it back.
It's good that you are asking questions about stuff like this, though. It shows that you don't want to lose that passion that many people let go of as they get older. If you hold onto it long enough, it will come back to you, too.
Sure, people mature with age. That's a given. They also change with time, and learn to incorporate the changes in the outside world to the one that lies in the bedroom. Yet somehow along the way, people forget what it means to love, and to be loved. People get so caught up in life; bills can choke a person, families get in the way, life happens, and passion is forgotten. But the sparks and interest you speak of has to be maintained. When people forget to treasure the small things in life, like being with someone they love, they lose more than the fire and lust that is a key part of any relationship. They lose a part of themselves, and rarely do they get it back.
It's good that you are asking questions about stuff like this, though. It shows that you don't want to lose that passion that many people let go of as they get older. If you hold onto it long enough, it will come back to you, too.
You know what I hate about goodbyes? Whether it is a few days, weeks, or indefiunately, it is the finality of the thing that bothers me so much. You can spend a few moments or a few hours saying it, but as you drive away, you always wish you had a few more seconds. To hug, to kiss, to speak great nothings, trying to etch...
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So here we go again. There seems to be too much time today, and I have had too much coffee. I will ramble on some more here, as if one entry that has almost no coherent point a day was not enough.
I just finished reading Still Life With Woodpecker again and I am contemplating one of the main themes of the book. It address...
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I just finished reading Still Life With Woodpecker again and I am contemplating one of the main themes of the book. It address...
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lotus:
hey!
re: your e-mail,
it's totally cool!
re: your e-mail,
it's totally cool!
My oh MY. I loved the idea of a journal, the idea of capturing all the rambling thoughts that wander through my head. But now I find myself questioning what is appropriate to put to history. Well that sounds a bit lofty, I guess I dont know whether to catalog every daily event, the highlights of my weeks and months, or just to ramble. But...
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Insomnia is worrisome.
Every time I log on here and contemplate writing an entry on this journal, I always feel the need to offer some bit of world changing advice, or witty rambling story with a pointed ending. Today I really dont have anything life changing, or any stories you will immerse yourselves in, giggling and learning. Today I offer a bit about myself, in part to fill...
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Good news in the everexpanding time hole I like to call "Learnin about Photography and Models". Sweet jesus, I am begining to understand all the rants out there about the difficulty in getting into this damn niche. I have been shooting pictures and getting paid for it for over 10 years now, and I have never encountered a market like this. Ah well, at least...
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Well this was a great idea 
A journal for all my thoughts, my ramblings, my infatuation with the tangent? Hope you guys have a lot of server space.
A journal for all my thoughts, my ramblings, my infatuation with the tangent? Hope you guys have a lot of server space.VIEW 3 of 3 COMMENTS
zimskool:
Welcome
Great pic
Great pic
toolonggone:
Sorry for the delay, but that you very much for the welcome!