its official...I was stood up yesterday. its apparently its my job to call him. and ttyl means "I'm mad at you so you have to call me" funny cuz I thought it meant I'll talk to you later.
you know when you're in a relationship and you reach that point where 1 person is way more into the other person...it always happens. I seriously can't figure out who that person is right now. usually its the 1 who gets scared of the emotions and pulls back...which is me right now. but then again it could be him too...he does his share of pulling back. then again the pulling back could be a way of letting go. moving on. hiding something. I like to go with the scared and confused theory. that seems to sound better to me right now.
I think what I need to do is make a pros and cons list of everything I like and feels right and everything that i don't like or feels wrong.
He's already told me he doesn't like several of my friends. that really hurts. I only have a few really good friends I consider my best friends, then there's a circle of good friends, then friendly aquaintences. I would never say anything that I thought was negative about their best/good friends. not until I really got to know them. and I wouldn't boldly outright say it, there's a tactful way of saying/doing things. a few yrs back there was a situation with my exhusbands best friend from childhood. I always had an opinion of him, but overall he was a nice enough guy so I neevr said anything. then there was the big problem and I told my ex how I really felt. I could see me saying it was hurtful to him....even if he was thinking and feeling the same thing. don't get me wrong if I ran into the guy I wouldn't be mean or rude to him, I've go not axe to grind, as far as knowing him I have no problems being friendly, but thats where I'd draw the line. I wouldn't chum around with him, or try to be his new best friend. If he needed to talk I'd listen, but knowing his history I couldn't get involved on any personal level. make sense?
anyways....its later than I thought and I should get my arse to work.
thoguht for the day......
my Dad had a blood transfusion when he was in the hospital (he's home and doing pretty well now), he seems to think that because of the foreign blood in his body its the reason he now likes: chicken, watermelon, cranberry juice and other foods he never liked before. hey as long as he doesn't start drinking and eating assloads of fried fatty foods again...I don't care if its because of the transfusion or not.
you know when you're in a relationship and you reach that point where 1 person is way more into the other person...it always happens. I seriously can't figure out who that person is right now. usually its the 1 who gets scared of the emotions and pulls back...which is me right now. but then again it could be him too...he does his share of pulling back. then again the pulling back could be a way of letting go. moving on. hiding something. I like to go with the scared and confused theory. that seems to sound better to me right now.
I think what I need to do is make a pros and cons list of everything I like and feels right and everything that i don't like or feels wrong.
He's already told me he doesn't like several of my friends. that really hurts. I only have a few really good friends I consider my best friends, then there's a circle of good friends, then friendly aquaintences. I would never say anything that I thought was negative about their best/good friends. not until I really got to know them. and I wouldn't boldly outright say it, there's a tactful way of saying/doing things. a few yrs back there was a situation with my exhusbands best friend from childhood. I always had an opinion of him, but overall he was a nice enough guy so I neevr said anything. then there was the big problem and I told my ex how I really felt. I could see me saying it was hurtful to him....even if he was thinking and feeling the same thing. don't get me wrong if I ran into the guy I wouldn't be mean or rude to him, I've go not axe to grind, as far as knowing him I have no problems being friendly, but thats where I'd draw the line. I wouldn't chum around with him, or try to be his new best friend. If he needed to talk I'd listen, but knowing his history I couldn't get involved on any personal level. make sense?
anyways....its later than I thought and I should get my arse to work.
thoguht for the day......
my Dad had a blood transfusion when he was in the hospital (he's home and doing pretty well now), he seems to think that because of the foreign blood in his body its the reason he now likes: chicken, watermelon, cranberry juice and other foods he never liked before. hey as long as he doesn't start drinking and eating assloads of fried fatty foods again...I don't care if its because of the transfusion or not.
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its a hard thing when it somes to SO's and friends who are not your favorite...i think your outlook on it is a good way of seeing it.
so is you dad going to make a full recovory?