My biggest accomplishment has been my overall personal growth.
I have become more open about my ENM marriage. My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for the last four years. When we started swinging, we didn’t even tell our best friends. It’s no ones business, after all. They originally did not approve but they eventually gave us their support. This past year I have been much more open about non monogamy which has led to people approaching me with questions. I think this helps break the stigma ENM has. I’m super proud to be able to share advise.
I feel very accomplished on my self love as well. You can preach self-love and body positivity all day but when it comes to yourself, you’re hard on yourself. This past year I have been becoming more comfortable in my body. I threw away the scale. I look at myself in the mirror and I’m happy with what I see no matter what shape I am that day. I started an onlyfans at the beginning of COVID-19 and have done pretty well. If you would have told me that I would be happy on a site like that a couple years ago I would have laughed in your face. In August 2020 a local photographer asked to do a photo shoot with me. I was terrifiedBut I did agree. I had so much fun and have been doing them almost monthly ever since. I think the biggest accomplishment when it comes to being self-conscious is that I actually submitted a set for this website. I’ve always been scared of being judged, made fun of, or even just talked about. I’m so proud of myself for actually trying to get here.
I no longer am worried about being judged. I love the skin that I have been given. I am open with my sexuality. I really think those have been my biggest accomplishments this past year. What have some of yours been?
