So, I went to a Halloween party last night. Not a huge party, about 20 or so people. I Knew a hand full of them, specifically the hosts, which was good cause I felt comfortable enough to drink. Had some awesome conversations with friends, both sober and drunk, mostly video games and metaphysics, which are 2 of my favorite subjects. So one of the girls there, one that I foolishly did NOT get the name of, seemed to take interest in me when I was able to spout out random video game knowledge. She also joined a conversation I was having about "The theories of death and fore-knowledge", and had some interesting thoughts and ideas which only sparked my curiosity more. Add in that she was showing pictures of red velvet cupcakes she made for her family and that she works at the Tea Lounge I occasionally frequent (where I know most of the people at the party from) and I think I want to pursue knowing this girl more.
Problems:
I don't know her name.
She may or may not be lesbian, I know at the LEAST she has admitted to the idea she likes girls.
I tend to get paranoid and come off as creepy, I think which would be even worse if I showed up at the Tea Lounge looking for her specifically to be there.
Being that she works at the Tea lounge, even if she was interested in a date, a Coffee Shop or the Tea Lounge which is my favorite spot to get to actually know someone and see if relationship can be possible is kinda... overkill I think...
Problems:
I don't know her name.
She may or may not be lesbian, I know at the LEAST she has admitted to the idea she likes girls.
I tend to get paranoid and come off as creepy, I think which would be even worse if I showed up at the Tea Lounge looking for her specifically to be there.
Being that she works at the Tea lounge, even if she was interested in a date, a Coffee Shop or the Tea Lounge which is my favorite spot to get to actually know someone and see if relationship can be possible is kinda... overkill I think...
Dont make friends if you want more than that.
Go in, and if you see her, say it was great meeting her but you foolishly didnt get her name. Keep it focused and to the point. Maybe mention you dont have much time (to limit your own ability to sabotage the conversation) but wanted to reintroduce yourself. Then tell her you really enjoyed the conversation you shared and would like to meet up with her again sometime to further your discussions on *insert nerd subject* -maybe over dinner...
You dont have to call it a date, but asking her out to dinner is essentially that when you get to be adults.
If she says yes -SCORE. Get her phone number and split.
If she says anything besides no, no problem, you can work on her another time. Tell her you are sure youll run into her again sometime. Still split.
If she says no, burn the place to the fucking ground.
But serious burn it down.
Ok lets just assume she doesnt say no.