How to update... timeline of events?
May 2007 - get married
October 2008 - she cheats on me and I make my best attempt to look past it and make the relationship work even though trust and emotions are hurt. Her excuse was that I was flirting with people online... despite her flirting with people in front of my face, the excuse for that was that "I knew the people she flirted with, she dosnt know the people I do...."
bit of a fast forward here, most of the time is spent with stupid arguments usually stemming from my uncaring attitude, or my inability to deal with someone who has no money, and no license who uses my money and the money that is for my daughter because of her disability to survive and then whom cant even keep the house clean given they are in it all day....
August 2009 - I go out of work on disability due to a herniated disk that is near severing my sciatic nerve. Suddenly despite my not moving and thus not causing ANY mess the house gets worse and its because "She cant clean with me in the house."
September 2009 - She feels the need to get out of the house because she cant deal with me being grumpy, she starts to go to a club with friends of whom where more mine then hers.
October 2009 - she asks me if I think an open relationship might be easier on both of us, i find out soon after that shes been heavily flirting with one of the bouncers at the club, shes kissed him and telling him I'm a horrible person... I find this out from friends... not her, then she tries to tell me stories before i confront her so that when I DO confront her she can say "I told you about that and its not how you heard it."
November 2009 - I go back to work, she gets into a fight with Said Bouncer because HE thaught they where dating and she was going to leave me for him. She tells him off realizing her flirting and such went to far. She starts flirting with others, putting their hands on her croch so that the bouncer would get jellous. He flipps, bad idea on his side... I get told I HAVE to take her to the cops to get a restraining order. He wisely backs down and things blow over.
December 2009 - Arguments continue to the point she once again threatens to leave (this happens most arguments when shes on the rag) I dont back down... she leaves me but quickly realizes she has no where to live so comes back and says shes looking for a place. I let her live here so long as she is WORKING on leaving. She is leaving me, but we agree together that a divorce is the best thing for us and for the baby.
Shes still been going out, and has been spending a LOT of time with a guy, I ask if they are dating she LOUDLY protests it and says nothing is going on. she spends all her time across the hall at the neighbors. Hes been over there alot too, he apperantly comes here while im at work and leaves before i get here. He met my daughter before I met him or knew he met her... The December events happened about a week almost 2 weeks ago....
yesturday - she changes her status on facebook from single (she changed it when we agreed on a divorce) to "in a relationship" I ask her about it out of curiosity.. she then says she only did it because she was tired of people asking her questions as to why it says single.... then two seconds later says "I've told you ive been going out with someone." which she hadnt, perhaps she MENT to but never did... so once again im a jerk for asking.
Official Recovery time from her and I deciding to seperate till she admits shes been seeing someone: 10 days, time from our seperation till her ACTUALY seeing someone and not admiting it -10 days...
Id be dead without my baby....
May 2007 - get married
October 2008 - she cheats on me and I make my best attempt to look past it and make the relationship work even though trust and emotions are hurt. Her excuse was that I was flirting with people online... despite her flirting with people in front of my face, the excuse for that was that "I knew the people she flirted with, she dosnt know the people I do...."
bit of a fast forward here, most of the time is spent with stupid arguments usually stemming from my uncaring attitude, or my inability to deal with someone who has no money, and no license who uses my money and the money that is for my daughter because of her disability to survive and then whom cant even keep the house clean given they are in it all day....
August 2009 - I go out of work on disability due to a herniated disk that is near severing my sciatic nerve. Suddenly despite my not moving and thus not causing ANY mess the house gets worse and its because "She cant clean with me in the house."
September 2009 - She feels the need to get out of the house because she cant deal with me being grumpy, she starts to go to a club with friends of whom where more mine then hers.
October 2009 - she asks me if I think an open relationship might be easier on both of us, i find out soon after that shes been heavily flirting with one of the bouncers at the club, shes kissed him and telling him I'm a horrible person... I find this out from friends... not her, then she tries to tell me stories before i confront her so that when I DO confront her she can say "I told you about that and its not how you heard it."
November 2009 - I go back to work, she gets into a fight with Said Bouncer because HE thaught they where dating and she was going to leave me for him. She tells him off realizing her flirting and such went to far. She starts flirting with others, putting their hands on her croch so that the bouncer would get jellous. He flipps, bad idea on his side... I get told I HAVE to take her to the cops to get a restraining order. He wisely backs down and things blow over.
December 2009 - Arguments continue to the point she once again threatens to leave (this happens most arguments when shes on the rag) I dont back down... she leaves me but quickly realizes she has no where to live so comes back and says shes looking for a place. I let her live here so long as she is WORKING on leaving. She is leaving me, but we agree together that a divorce is the best thing for us and for the baby.
Shes still been going out, and has been spending a LOT of time with a guy, I ask if they are dating she LOUDLY protests it and says nothing is going on. she spends all her time across the hall at the neighbors. Hes been over there alot too, he apperantly comes here while im at work and leaves before i get here. He met my daughter before I met him or knew he met her... The December events happened about a week almost 2 weeks ago....
yesturday - she changes her status on facebook from single (she changed it when we agreed on a divorce) to "in a relationship" I ask her about it out of curiosity.. she then says she only did it because she was tired of people asking her questions as to why it says single.... then two seconds later says "I've told you ive been going out with someone." which she hadnt, perhaps she MENT to but never did... so once again im a jerk for asking.
Official Recovery time from her and I deciding to seperate till she admits shes been seeing someone: 10 days, time from our seperation till her ACTUALY seeing someone and not admiting it -10 days...
Id be dead without my baby....
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issue_:
you should smack her with your taint brush.
user209834982:
I like issue's suggestion.