Ok pretty much everything was resolved this past weekend, all fears were put to an end. However my mother and I are still not talk but that is okay because I've started my career planning course and it's awesome. I've already met a few cool people and reunited with some old friends. Adair and I are ok, we had a great weekend together and she affirmed that she was in disbelief if what was said about me in my absence and that she had corrected her mother's beliefs as well. However there is the ongoing situation with my mother but I have chosen to just go on and do my best to help out without going past what I think I should be contributing.
sadistic_glee:
So you're getting on with your life despite the difficulties? Sounds like a good plan. 
Good to hear that things between you and Adair are all good too!
Good to hear that things between you and Adair are all good too!