So last night in the shower I had this stuck in my head:
"I've been a bad bad girl
I've been careless with a delicate man
And its a sad sad world
When a girl will break a boy
Just because she can." -Fiona Apple, Criminal
It reminds me of this guy I dated that was kind of a pussy. Am I the only girl around who HATES to be dominant (not sexually) in a relationship? Seriously, I need to have a MAN. One that doesn't cry at bullshit movies, can lift heavy things, I feel can protect me, and does not treat me like a fucking doll. Aaaaaaaaanyhow, I met this guy in college. We "dated" for less than a month. Back then I still smoked hella pot, drank constantly, did drugs and hung out with mainly crazy fucks. He, well, he drank sometimes and was very preppy. I made it clear to this guy I did not want a "boyfriend" but apparently it didn't take. He drove like 8 hours on his b-day to get me to go to dinner with his family. Plus, and not to sound evil, I wasn't attracted to him. I tried to be because he was the first guy I dated that wasn't a dick to me, but it didn't work. He played Marvin Gaye and that "all of my life, where have you been" song by Lenny Kravitz. Long story shortish, I told him I had kissed other guys, he flipped, called me a slut, got drunk, tried to get back with me, cried. I left him outside, on the curb, crying by my dorm building at like 2 a.m. I don't remember having toruble sleeping.
Anyhow, my current man is very good to me, and I to him, but he tells me no sometimes. He doesn't try to open my door all the time (I hate that shit, it wastes time), gets injured without even knowing, loves me, and I've only seen him cry once and that was when his best friend died. We are equal. I don't think I could be happier.
So yes, I guess for me, nice guys finish last, but only if they are pussies.
"I've been a bad bad girl
I've been careless with a delicate man
And its a sad sad world
When a girl will break a boy
Just because she can." -Fiona Apple, Criminal
It reminds me of this guy I dated that was kind of a pussy. Am I the only girl around who HATES to be dominant (not sexually) in a relationship? Seriously, I need to have a MAN. One that doesn't cry at bullshit movies, can lift heavy things, I feel can protect me, and does not treat me like a fucking doll. Aaaaaaaaanyhow, I met this guy in college. We "dated" for less than a month. Back then I still smoked hella pot, drank constantly, did drugs and hung out with mainly crazy fucks. He, well, he drank sometimes and was very preppy. I made it clear to this guy I did not want a "boyfriend" but apparently it didn't take. He drove like 8 hours on his b-day to get me to go to dinner with his family. Plus, and not to sound evil, I wasn't attracted to him. I tried to be because he was the first guy I dated that wasn't a dick to me, but it didn't work. He played Marvin Gaye and that "all of my life, where have you been" song by Lenny Kravitz. Long story shortish, I told him I had kissed other guys, he flipped, called me a slut, got drunk, tried to get back with me, cried. I left him outside, on the curb, crying by my dorm building at like 2 a.m. I don't remember having toruble sleeping.
Anyhow, my current man is very good to me, and I to him, but he tells me no sometimes. He doesn't try to open my door all the time (I hate that shit, it wastes time), gets injured without even knowing, loves me, and I've only seen him cry once and that was when his best friend died. We are equal. I don't think I could be happier.
So yes, I guess for me, nice guys finish last, but only if they are pussies.
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itzjusme:
i don't know them. i've just met them at their various shows back in the day. they played with soulfly many many times. seen em at the maritime hall a few times before it closed...etc...they would chill in the lobby...as would we
itzjusme:
I've seen Soulfly 8 times. They we're fun. I kinda got a little bored of 'em when I discovered some of my new faves. I've met Gloria (Max's wife) but said nothing but hello because I was shy....