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Strange, wonderful, lovely, confusing things.
So yesterday I went to the Cattle Baron's Ball in Forney. Its a big Dallas Richy Rich party held on a ranch with food and alcohol galore. $150 tickets and people I don't usually care to hang around but because our company does some of the photography for them I got 2 tickets. So moving on...
I took a girl I have been dating (the one that wrote me an email 2 weeks ago about wanting to slow down and thinking we were going too fast) to it. Now this was going to be one of those last try dates. If I felt no interest from her I would move on. So we're there, we have fun, drinking, taking cute photo booth pictures and having (once again) frank conversation. So I raised up the email from 2 weeks prior and admitted that I stopped calling so often and asking her to do things because I didn't want to be bothersome. She follows with "Why?" Ummm because you thought we were going to fast! Then she started telling me that I should be more confident and aggressive. Agreed. But what am I supposed to do when I get the slow down email? She admits that I will get a few no's and I'm busy's but fewer than I think I would. I say I'm not into games and she says that's not what it is. It's her being freshly out of a relationship and still dealing with an ex and wanting me to be more confident in who I am. She says she likes me and thinks I'm one of the nicest guys she's met in a while. Telling her I don't want the "Friend Zone" see insures me that's not where it's going. So, Now I am going to go back to being upfront and forward with her knowing I won't get the answers I want but also knowing the more confident I am with my actions and who I am the more I'll get closer to her. I think? We'll see. I'm sure I'll be turned down for this upcoming weekend but I will tell her she's missing out and hopefully she'll think "You know what? Maybe I am."
To be continued...
At the same time I think I'm going to go out with a girl that may be moving to France soon but I need to live for today not tomorrow!
Dating...ain't it a bitch?
Strange, wonderful, lovely, confusing things.
So yesterday I went to the Cattle Baron's Ball in Forney. Its a big Dallas Richy Rich party held on a ranch with food and alcohol galore. $150 tickets and people I don't usually care to hang around but because our company does some of the photography for them I got 2 tickets. So moving on...
I took a girl I have been dating (the one that wrote me an email 2 weeks ago about wanting to slow down and thinking we were going too fast) to it. Now this was going to be one of those last try dates. If I felt no interest from her I would move on. So we're there, we have fun, drinking, taking cute photo booth pictures and having (once again) frank conversation. So I raised up the email from 2 weeks prior and admitted that I stopped calling so often and asking her to do things because I didn't want to be bothersome. She follows with "Why?" Ummm because you thought we were going to fast! Then she started telling me that I should be more confident and aggressive. Agreed. But what am I supposed to do when I get the slow down email? She admits that I will get a few no's and I'm busy's but fewer than I think I would. I say I'm not into games and she says that's not what it is. It's her being freshly out of a relationship and still dealing with an ex and wanting me to be more confident in who I am. She says she likes me and thinks I'm one of the nicest guys she's met in a while. Telling her I don't want the "Friend Zone" see insures me that's not where it's going. So, Now I am going to go back to being upfront and forward with her knowing I won't get the answers I want but also knowing the more confident I am with my actions and who I am the more I'll get closer to her. I think? We'll see. I'm sure I'll be turned down for this upcoming weekend but I will tell her she's missing out and hopefully she'll think "You know what? Maybe I am."
To be continued...
At the same time I think I'm going to go out with a girl that may be moving to France soon but I need to live for today not tomorrow!
Dating...ain't it a bitch?
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emily_m:
No problem! 
merd22:
You got frank? About what?? I want to know! Well no one said anything to me about you being frank, so I don't think it was that big of a deal. 
