thorn2

I had a conversation the other day with my younger brother. He's pretty cocky about his sexual prowess (no pun intended) and certainly looks the part: blond hair blue eyes, built like a 5'9" tank covered in tribal tattoos (you wouldn't think we had the same mother - guess the Navy did it to him).
Anyway, we were talking about sex and how he and his wife are very adventurous but she wanted him to try tantric sex. He didn't get why, in order for it to work, the guy isn't supposed to cum. This seems to be a real common theme with most guys I've talked to in their 20's which is a shame. I think if more guys understood that the best part about making love to a woman, or fucking (there is a difference), is to prolong the experience for HER.
A guy can get an orgasm anytime, a woman, however, is more like a fine instrument that when touched right can make the most beautiful music your soul can ever experience. I tried to explain the idea that to take himself to the brink while pleasing the one he's with is much more satsfying in the long run. He gave me the "yeah, right" tone and we moved on to other things.
Whatever. The opportunity to see the face of God is wasted on the young. Shit, I could never admit to knowing everything about a woman - it's a lot more fun practicing and exploring as often as you can