thesonofidris

I haven't been on here for a bit. The last couple weeks have been quite fucked. I took my mother to the emergency room on March 3rd at 4 in the morning. She was at St. Joseph until March 8th then they transferred her to UCSD in San Diego. When she got to UCSD she was doing a bit better. On Monday March 9th I went out and got a new apartment because my mom wouldn't be able to walk up the stairs in the place she's lived for 22 years. So I found a single floor apartment. Come Tuesday my sister says that my mom doesn't want to move. So Tuesday I go out and cancel the apartment. Wednesday we go down and see my mom. She was up and talking and she even signed a form so my sister and I could be on her bank account. We let her know that we loved her and we talked some more. I feed her some ice chips, since that's all she was able to eat. We left the hospital at about 1030pm. We drove home and woke up the next day knowing that we'll see my mom on Saturday. On Thursday March 12th at 6pm the doctor called my sister and told her that they needed to put my mother on life support within the next 2-3 minutes or she was going to die. Now my mother for years said she never wanted to be on life support but she said yes. So we said okay. They were hopeful of her waking up. Friday March 13th was my birthday. My sister came over and said we have a choice we can take her off life support on Friday or we can go down Saturday. I couldn't bring myself to let my mom go on my birthday and everyone I talked to agreed with me. So yesterday on Sunday March 14th at 940am we took her off life support and by 950am she had passed away.

I love you mom more then you'll ever know. You taught me things I'll never forget. I know you're in heaven, you're able to run, walk, breathe, in no pain, and able to do all the things you couldn't do down here on Earth. You will always be loved and remembered. Please continue to look over your family.

R.I.P. Connie Anne Cadero