theslowrunner

This was posted in the virgin group in a thread of why we are still a virgin.

I'm really happy to have found this group. I'll be honest...I was never the best looking male in my group of friends. I never felt myself good enough to even imagine that a girl would consider dating me or even sleep with me. I'm not going to blame my virginity on my looks...There had been much more undesirable men and women who were active. That is why I tended to avoid relationships and stick to the web. I held off to the point where when I finally found my confidence I had lost my sense of direction. I just turned 21 years old and I feel that if I have waited this long I can wait a little bit longer to find someone who is good for me. Though, this is made even harder by the fact that my friends are all very sexually active and constantly speak about their sexual conquests both the male and females. When I ask them to change the subject things either turn awkward since I am the last virgin out of all of my friends or I get told off and go be a man. I've been waiting for such a long time now for a girl that I find myself wanting to throw it all away. I'm a hopeless romantic in life and I think that won't help.